I put this in girl talk ask Olivia thingy, but it’s not getting answered there, so I thought I’d try here. K, I kinda have a problem. So, there is this guy that goes to my brother’s collage. Here, let me start from the beginning: His name is Charlie, and he came over to our house a few time with a few other of my bro.’s friends. He treated me in a way that no other guy has treated me. He was kind and payed attention to me, and genuinely cared for me. However, we do not date, and his collage is very strict, so your not allowed to court, and have to wait until your Jr. year to even consider courting. Lately he has been rude to me, so I asked my bro why he was. Jon, my bro, looked at me and said that he didn’t want to like me so he was staying away. At first I didn’t believe him, but now I see that it is true. I see pain in his eyes when he has to avoid me. It hurts that I’m causing him pain, and he is causing me a ton of pain. I probably won’t end up with him, and that hurts me so much! It takes a lot of character to do what he is doing, (remember, it would be wrong for us to like each other) so I greatly respect him. Ug, I guess I don’t really know what I’m asking, I just need some help!
|April 11, 2016 at 19:48|
Have you prayed about it and asked God what he thinks is the best thing to do? I think that if it is God’s will he will let him come back to you or if not now maybe sometime in the future where you two are allowed to court. Have you tried like talking to him since?
|April 24, 2016 at 11:29|
Also always remember Jeremiah 29:11 “This is GOD ’s Word on the subject: “As soon as Babylon’s seventy years are up and not a day before, I’ll show up and take care of you as I promised and bring you back home. I know what I’m doing. I have it all planned out—plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for.
“When you call on me, when you come and pray to me, I’ll listen.”
|April 24, 2016 at 11:31|
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