So recently (like yesterday) a guy friend told me he liked me. (If you saw my other sort of recent post, its not the same guy) He goes to youth group and says the right stuff on church ground. The second he’s off, he cusses, and does all bad stuff (drinking and I’m pretty sure drugs) He’s what I call a superficial Christian. Well I’ve never had a boyfriend and with all the peer pressure of everyone having boyfriends and stuff I’m really reeeeaaallly tempted to say yes if he would ever ask me to be his girlfriend. I know its wrong and I shouldn’t I would never never never think of marrying a guy like him so I just need affirmation and support. Maybe some bible verses or stuff. Idk I just need help. Thanks!!! 🙈❤
|February 11, 2016 at 22:29|
He sounds like a sketchy guy, especially if he does drugs. You should probably become friends first, but just be careful and don’t let him talk you into doing anything you aren’t comfortable with. Don’t give in to the pressure! Trust me, having a boyfriend just because everyone else does is not a good way to go. And if you would never think of marrying a guy like him, that’s probably a pretty solid sign that he’s not a good guy for you to date either. I wouldn’t say to completely cut all ties with him, but maybe you should just be friends and like I said, be careful.
|February 18, 2016 at 08:43|
I think you deserve someone with a better mindset and attitude.
|February 18, 2016 at 13:42|
Don’t give in to the pressure. You’re not alone. There are many people who have never been in a relationship, myself included. And its not a bad thing. I have no distractions and can freely live for Christ. I know it’s hard to resist the pressure of wanting to give in. Bit if we give in to the ‘little’ things, how can we resist bigger things? I believe this experience can be used to strengthen your relationship with God. It may not seem like a big deal to date a nonbeliever now, but next thing you know, you’re falling for him and end up married, then he’ll have you doing things against God and ultimately turn you away from God. As the Casting Crown song says, “people never crumble in a day, it’s a slow fade.” Verses that may help: 2 Corinthians 6:14, John 14:15, John 16:33, Romans 8:18. I wish you the best of luck and remember to seek God first💕
|February 19, 2016 at 17:28|
Thank you so much! Its been a week since he’s told me he likes me and he hasn’t said anything about dating so that’s good! I’ll definitely look up those bible verses and work on my relationship with God. Recently I’ve realized that my relationship with him is faltering so I think this is his way of saying “alright nows the time to decide. Me or him?” Idk lol thanks again so much ❤❤❤
|February 19, 2016 at 18:12|
Girly, don’t even pursue a friendship with this guy. A “Christian” who is only a Christian at church is bad news when he gets mixed up with your emotions. I really recommend that you stear clear of him.
|February 25, 2016 at 13:14|
Gurrl, If you do not see yourself with him in the long run (like marrying him) then I say just to friend-zone him. Unless HE is willing to change right NOW and become a true man of God, then it will not be worth the drama. Trust me!!
|March 10, 2016 at 11:58|
The bible says to guard your heart. Proverbs 4:23 “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
|April 11, 2016 at 14:18|
@savannahLS like omg thank you. Like your amazing. I know its been forever since like I posted this and like the guy I talked about in the post hasn’t made any move so im happy but I’m still having “I want a boyfriend” problems so this helped A LOT thanks you ❤❤ you can quote stuff like I can quote tangled (I watch that movie like everyday lol) your amazing 👌❤
|April 14, 2016 at 13:45|
Wow, I recently checked back on this post cause you were on my mind And I just want to say thank you! That really helped me a lot because I recently started a blog called girlplusgod.com and like i don’t know how people were going to react to it so when you replied to me so positively it really gave me peace in heart about it so thank you so much!
|April 17, 2016 at 13:05|
Wow that’s amazing!! Your so blessed. Thanks I just need to accept that like you said. I’ve been getting better like its more like these waves of that. But this has helped me. So like I hope I’m not prying but how old are you? Like you seem like so full of knowledge and wise. It’s a compliment! 😋
|April 19, 2016 at 13:17|
Yeah! I completely understand!!! All we can do is pray about it and ask God to settle our hearts. Awesome! I’m so glad it has! I’m actually really young, I’m 14! Wbu? And your not prying 😆 And Thank you! That means so much!!! I pray for knowledge and wisdom 😂 and a lot of it too comes from my dad, if you think I have wisdom lol he’s got loads more 😂
|April 22, 2016 at 12:53|
No way?! You seem older. I guess maybe its cuz my friends are just so immature 😂 well most of them. Anyways if your blog is anything like the advice you’ve given me it’ll be a success for sure
|April 26, 2016 at 12:18|
yes way! That’s what everyone says that i’m very mature but it’s because I’m the youngest of 5 and grew up around adults! As for the blog it is currently down! I was starting to get frustrated cause they said it wasn’t verified BUT I fixed it and so it should lord willing be up in a couple hours again! but thank you!
|April 26, 2016 at 15:56|
Haha that makes sense 🙂 awe, im glad you have it back up! Good luck with it but im pretty sure itll be amazing
|May 5, 2016 at 09:23|
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