A Message From PI Founder, Nicole:

I want to remind you that God created you for a huge purpose, and He WILL use you to build His kingdom! You are meant to shine!

How to know God.

 

I like this guy, but I'm not the only one.

Home Forums Life, Love & Girlfriends High School Girl Talk I like this guy, but I'm not the only one.

This topic contains 2 replies, has 2 voices, and was last updated by  Victoria_anneee 10 months ago.

Viewing 3 posts - 1 through 3 (of 3 total)
Author Posts
ArtiseyDisneyGal

ArtiseyDisneyGal

Hey all! I’ve been debating on posting this for the longest time but here it is.
So recently I’ve fallen for this guy who goes to my theater and bible study. He’s a pretty amazing guy to be around, though he is quiet and only hangs out with a few people that he knows. The obstacle in my way is a couple of girls who are basically all over him, touching him, hugging him, ect. One of the girls in particular is so in love with him and everyone thinks their dating. She’s not in our play at the moment so I can take this a chance to get to know him. But at the same time there’s this girl who I don’t actually know if she likes him or is just super all up in his face. So I want to get to talk to him more but I don’t want to come off as too flirty and possible scare him away. Because if he’ll never share the same feelings I want to be at least friends. He has made an effort to know me so I appreciate that.
When we’re one on one I don’t actually have a problem talking to him, but like yesterday when the whole cast was in the theater he came and sat by me and I just couldn’t muster up the courage to talk. Any advice for anything I’m asking? Should I just let him go? I don’t want to suffer any more than I should.

January 29, 2016 at 06:55
ArtiseyDisneyGal

ArtiseyDisneyGal

*they’re. Sorry, I wrote it late XD

January 31, 2016 at 20:06
Victoria_anneee

Victoria_anneee

Well darn, this must be some thing of a guy!
Anyway, from what is sounds like, and correct me if I’m wrong, your having a dillema with all these other girls liking him at the same time. My advice to that is even though there are other girls around that like him, just go for him anyway. Of course, I don’t know these girls, and knowing girls, they can be quite catty sometimes so I don’t know how territorial they are over this guy. But you should totally go for him if you really like him that much! Don’t worry to much about the other girls, just remember to be respectful and courteous to them.

But either way, even if the other girls do bother you, I do think you should try to be friends with him. Don’t worry about coming off overly flirtatious, just be yourself and relax. If he’s that awesome of a guy, he’ll like you that way anyway. Plus, from the sounds of it, it already seems like he’s used to overly flirty girls as it is.

In terms of the talking, it sounds like you already got the initial talking ball rolling! I’m pretty sure those awkward, non-talkative moments happen to us all occasionally so don’t sweat it too much. Don’t let them happen to often though because that could leave you guys to have an awkward disconnect which I’ve had before and it is very unpleasant. In terms of being to scared to talk to him, you just have to get the guts and say something. Trust me, you’ll want to work up the courage to talk to him or you might regret it. Recently, I lost my shot with this one guy because I was to scared to talk to him and now, I regret that I never did because he moved on. Always, always do your best to say something if you really want to talk to someone, don’t leave things completely unsaid.

You are an amazing, fabulous girl and I hope that you work up the guts to talk to this guy and that it all works out! If you have anymore questions, fears or whatever it may be, feel free to say something. <3

February 7, 2016 at 00:10
Viewing 3 posts - 1 through 3 (of 3 total)

You must be logged in to reply to this topic.