So, um, one of my best guy friends and I, last school year realized we had feelings for each other. He even asked me out, but I said I wasn’t ready for a relationship yet because:
So, I didn’t talk to him the whole summer because I was like, he’s moved on, I need to move on. But that summer was really sad without him. So, when school started, he brings it up in the subtle, roundabout way we communicated at the time. I had no response, because I was scared and too occupied with other crises (such as my family getting evicted). So around October this year, he gets a girlfriend. I thought I was over him.
But I figured he was over me so I shut up about it. And we acted like the friends I suggested we be last year.
Until he asks me straight out if I still have feelings for him.
He felt bad about telling me this because of that…
And now it’s hard to sleep, partially because I know that if we decide to have a relationship, we’ll have to explain this to my parents, and partially because of the other girl.
I’ve been praying about it, but I don’t know what to do.
(P. S. He reminds me of my dad, btw.)
|December 29, 2014 at 05:02|
Y’all dun goofed. Having feelings for someone doesn’t mean you can’t be friends.
|December 29, 2014 at 13:05|
I guess I was overthinking things, as usual.
|December 29, 2014 at 13:27|
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