A Message From PI Founder, Nicole:

I want to remind you that God created you for a huge purpose, and He WILL use you to build His kingdom! You are meant to shine!

How to know God.


I need advice you guys…

Home Forums Life, Love & Girlfriends Relationships I need advice you guys…

This topic contains 2 replies, has 2 voices, and was last updated by  rusie 1 year, 11 months ago.

Viewing 3 posts - 1 through 3 (of 3 total)
Author Posts
Project Inspired


So, um, one of my best guy friends and I, last school year realized we had feelings for each other. He even asked me out, but I said I wasn’t ready for a relationship yet because:
1) I wasn’t.
2) I know my parents weren’t ready for me to have a relationship yet.

So, I didn’t talk to him the whole summer because I was like, he’s moved on, I need to move on. But that summer was really sad without him. So, when school started, he brings it up in the subtle, roundabout way we communicated at the time. I had no response, because I was scared and too occupied with other crises (such as my family getting evicted). So around October this year, he gets a girlfriend. I thought I was over him.

Apparently not.

But I figured he was over me so I shut up about it. And we acted like the friends I suggested we be last year.

Until he asks me straight out if I still have feelings for him.
And I say yea.
And he says he does too.
And that he was trying to move on when he got a new girlfriend.

He felt bad about telling me this because of that…

And now it’s hard to sleep, partially because I know that if we decide to have a relationship, we’ll have to explain this to my parents, and partially because of the other girl.

I’ve been praying about it, but I don’t know what to do.

(P. S. He reminds me of my dad, btw.)

December 29, 2014 at 05:02


Y’all dun goofed. Having feelings for someone doesn’t mean you can’t be friends.
You have feelings for him, he has feelings for you. But if he has a girlfriend, you can’t do anything until he doesn’t.
As for discussing things with your parents, there is currently nothing to discuss. Cross that bridge when you come to it.

December 29, 2014 at 13:05
Project Inspired


Thanks, Slinky.

I guess I was overthinking things, as usual.

December 29, 2014 at 13:27
Viewing 3 posts - 1 through 3 (of 3 total)

You must be logged in to reply to this topic.