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Janatertot

Janatertot

Hi I’ve had many friend groups and in those groups I’ve had close friends but lately I have secluded myself to just one group but I’ve been reading posts about best friends and then I realized that I don’t have one… How do I gain one??

July 29, 2015 at 05:47
Lexi7

Lexi7

Hi! 🙂 Well, there really isn’t a formula to finding a best friend.. Of course, you can pray about it, and ask God to bring someone into your life, like a best friend, and remember to trust that He has a plan and that He will bring the perfect people into your life at the perfect time. From my experience, finding a best friend or becoming someone’s best friend is not something that you can force. It happens naturally if God intends for that person to be your best friend. The story of how you find your best friend will definitely be different from everyone else’s stories. But I’ll tell you mine! 🙂 So, my ffamily had lived in new jersey for a while but one day, we moved to Iowa. And of course we didn’t want to because all of our family and friends lived in nj still and you know, who moves to iowa? haha well, as it turns out, my family moved to iowa and i now see how it was a part of God’s plan.
In my middle school in Iowa, before I got there, this girl was asked if she would share a locker with “the new girl” (me), since she didn’t yet have a locker partner. She actually kind of diddn’t want to but accepted anyway. which is good because t hat was how i met her. it’s funny because I actually expected to becoome friends with this other girl because she was supposed to show me around the school my first day and she did, but she only talked to her other friend while i trailed behind so i could get to my classes. and i sat with them at lunch but im naturally shy and i don’t relate to them so i didn’t talk much. Eventually though, I sttarted going to youth group with my locker partner and i switched lunch tables to sit with her and we just became really close super fast and in the one year that I lived there we became best friends. .Another reason that I know our friendship is from God is because although i moved away to florida just a year after i got to iowa, and we both were thinking we wouldn’t be as close anymore, we have only gotten closer since then even though we live across the country from one another. That is how I know that our friendship is a part of God’s plan, and my best friend and I help bring each other closer to Christ as we get closer to each other. That should be the case in any good friendship. So, the best things you can do and should do are pray about it, and try to live your life in such a way that you live the Gospel and try to live for Jesus. Then, the perfect best friend for you will naturally come along and even if it isn’t clear at first, it will be clear eventually thhat this was the best friend God had for you. So don’t try to force it, just be oopen to allowing yourself to become closer to friends and just be a light for them and try to live God’s will. Let His plan work in your life annd everything will work out great!! Anyway, I hope I could help. Remeember that Jesus loves you and He has a bbest friend for you who He will bring into your life at the perfect time and who will help you grow closer to Christ aas you get closer to them! 🙂 God bless 🙂 and I’ll be praying for you!! 🙂

July 31, 2015 at 19:12
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