Okay, so there’s two people I need help forgiving. One is this guy I dated for six and a half months and then we had a really messy break up. I still talk to him every now and then but it still hurts and I’m not sure why. I told him I forgave him, but how do you know if you’ve truly forgiven someone because I still feel some hostility towards him. Also, I used to be friends with this girl and I’m not anymore because she said that I get on everyone’s nerves and she said some other offensive stuff to me and she walked past me in the morning yesterday and yelled ew, and I’d just like to be at peace with her. Any advice?