So i’m a christian and I went wild for awhile and i have feelings for every cute guy i see but when i get to know them its different. There is this guy i like at church and we danced tonight but i don’t know if my feelings are true are not. I’ve been hurt so much i don’t want to be a boy toy and please pray for me i’ve asked God so many times and nothing yet.
I think you need to start by figuring out why you like this guy, is he someone you truly like, or is he just attractive, then become friends with him. There is absolutely nothing wrong with friendships with guys, and those friendships can help you develop the emotional maturity required for a good relationship.