|August 11, 2015 at 22:17|
Okay, you can’t *make* someone lust over you, sin is a choice.
Anyways, if you want to be more conservative for YOU, here are some ideas:
*My pastor’s wife LOVES skinny jeans, but she has a big butt so she uses hi-low tops or kimonos to cover it.
|August 12, 2015 at 08:30|
There are guys who will lust over anything female, and they have a serious problem. While you can help some guys avoid lust (the ones who actually want to avoid it and are trying to), that kind of guy wants to lust, sees women as objects, and will do it no matter what. The reason you feel disgusted by it is because those guys are disgusting.
To add to Broken Vessel’s suggestions–
|August 12, 2015 at 12:53|
I understand wanting to dress more modestly. While you’re not responsible for this person’s sin, dressing modestly can make you feel less exposed and more comfortable if you do run into someone disrespectful.
BrokenVessel and Marcy shared great tips, and also keep in mind that modesty is not so much how you dress as how you act.
|August 12, 2015 at 16:00|
First off, you can’t make someone lust over you. They are either gonna lust or they aren’t going to lust. You can’t live in fear of people stare at you ‘like that’ I get stared at quite often simply because I’m a girl and I’m not ugly. Don’t change how you dress because of someone else. If you change how you dress you should change because you feel God told you too. Not because someone looked at you, because that will happen no matter what you are wearing.
|August 12, 2015 at 16:54|
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