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I'm in my first relationship, and I suppose I need some guidance

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SOO… I’ve got this special guy in my life, and he’s great. Since everyone here will question this if I don’t mention it, he does in fact know God and that sort of thing. I really appreciate how he’s there for me, because I’ve been going through some rough spots in my life, and he is literally the least dramatic thing in my life (other than my beliefs and Jesus) right now. Guys, I do like him a lot. We’ve been dating for over a month, and he’s been my boyfriend for a bit more than a week. I guess my question is, how do you know when it’s time to kiss a guy? Like, I know that he’s interested in kissing me. I think he wanted to after prom a while ago, but he didn’t ask, and I didn’t pursue that because I didn’t feel quite ready then. I however, after praying on it, think that I am ready. Is there a way to know for sure? And how do I go about letting him know that I’m ready now?

April 21, 2016 at 13:51
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If your ready then jf yiur put in the position to kiss him again then you wont feel uncomfortable. As to letting him know your ready, i say let him make the move again. I honestly dont believe in girls making the first move in any situation. So yeah just make sure your ready and comfortable with it

April 26, 2016 at 12:24


Okay.. First and foremost, talk about your physical boundaries with one another. I know you’re asking a question about kissing but talking about your boundaries in the relationship is so important for both of you to do. Since you are both Christians, I assume you want to save yourselves for your future spouses. In that scenario, I think talking about how far is too far and making sure you’re not alone in places that could possibly tempt you would really be a good thing to do. Once you discuss your boundaries, if not already, I think that will open doors for you to talk about when you will be ready to share your first kiss. I think it is so respectful for a guy to ASK if he can kiss you or hold your hand. It lets you know that he isn’t just thinking about what he wants but that he really cares for you. So, I think you should talk about it. Some people just wait until they both feel the spark and really want to kiss..and that is completely fine. However, I’d say just talk about it first and it is really respectful for him to ask first 🙂
Hope that helped you!

August 16, 2016 at 14:30
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