I dated this boy for 1.5 years (from October of freshman year to july of sophomore year) and now that I’ve broken up with him, I notice all the really irritating things about him. Sometimes I can’t help but snap at him and I know I can be really mean. But I just look at him and see how much I shouldn’t have been with him (he wasn’t a Christian, really irresponsible, etc.) and I just want to scream. So it’s not his issue, it’s mine, and I need help figuring out how to stop. I’m going to try to talk to him sometime, any idea of what I should say?
Honestly, my first piece of advice would be to pray and ask God for patience and to help you forget about him. Trust me I’ve been in the same boat as you and I know what it’s like lol. But God will help you move on and not have that distraction in your life 🙂