my bff is starting to be insecure and having trouble not being in the world. her pinterest has MULTIPLE pins about short stuff like shorter than short!!!!!!!!!!! there is also stuff about like blue and rainbow hair and high heels, like 3 inch heels! within this past year it started, it was when she switched from glasses to contacts. lately, she has been “cuffing” her shorts up to like mid thigh, because she thinks they look horrible not cuffed, but it only looks like what the bottom of jeans look like. she claims she never wants to marry, but when we played a game at church, you were only supposed to hold wrists but she held hands, with guys. she also changed her pinterest profile to a cartoon boy. my other friend wears short clothing but my bff said that she wishes she could wear short clothing like so and so. she also will sometimes will say things in a way that make it seem like she is trying to get attention from guys. thank goodness she is homeschooled of it could be worse. she is the oldest out of 4 kids. her siblings are all boys. now i will give my bff a fake name, lets say mia. i am best friends with mia but right now that is not mia, that is someone else that i have no desire to be friends with. please help!!!
|June 21, 2015 at 14:54|
Im not the best at advice I have some problems but what you should do is ask her what she doesnt like herself and why she feels insecure then talk about a her good quality’s and tell her she doesn’t have to try to be someels she’s perfect the way she is and she shouldn’t Chang herself 🙂
|June 23, 2015 at 06:57|
In really don’t know why I did not think of that?!?! Thank you!
|June 23, 2015 at 18:47|
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