|November 23, 2014 at 22:06|
If you’re not trying to get their attention because you find them attractive, I don’t really think that you’re flirting, so you’re not a flirt in the first place. 🙂 Being confident with guys doesn’t seem like a bad thing, though you probably should be aware that they might fall for you because, hey, you’re an attractive girl who they are comfortable around, and that could be awkward for you. Otherwise, I don’t really see being confident leading to trouble with guys. If anything, being confident could help you out in some ways.
|November 23, 2014 at 22:18|
You’re. Not. Being. A. Flirt! AHHHH that drives me crazy when people say that because I get that all the time too. I’m pretty friendly and whenever I start talking to guys we always end up laughing and joking around, and somehow people think that’s flirting?!?! (I actually made a post about this too a few days ago!)
Idk why people CANNOT comprehend that girls and guys can be friends without being romantic. Maybe it’s because culture is so over-sexualized. Anyway, don’t stop being you, because you are awesome, and I think it’s great that you are so comfortable with guys.
In answer to your actual question though, I think being an intentional flirt isn’t a good thing–idk that it’s sinful but I just would never want to lead someone into thinking I like them when I don’t. I take relationships really seriously.
However, your personality is definitely not bad!! You are friendly which is actually really good!! You can’t control what other people think of you, so I wouldn’t even worry about it. 🙂
|November 24, 2014 at 08:26|
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