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Is saying ‘I love you’ to your best guy friend bad?

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Heyheyjustine

Heyheyjustine

I had this best guy friend for like years and now, I just realized that I do like him. Actually, I also had this guy that I like and also liked me back. Our feelings our mutual but we don’t have THAT relationship. We said to each other we’ll wait ’til we finished school. But we lasted for just 2 years because I realized that I already had feelings with my best guy friend that is also one of the closest friends of the guy I liked before. So going back to the topic, my best friend and I used to say ‘I love you’ to each other but we make it casual. Like, we misspell it and add the word ‘best friend’ at the end of the sentence. My question is, is that normal for best friends that’s in opposite sex? He’s also showing many clues that he also likes me back. He’s jealous when I’m with my close guy friends. He had a lot of crushes, and I think he haven’t got over with his past relationship. But… his actions tell me he likes me and especially when he says ‘I love you’ to me. I am so confused. What did this mean? Help 🙁

July 9, 2015 at 06:36
f u

f u

I tell my guy friends I love them all the time. DO you say it to your girl friends? I do. Guys are people to and many of my friends are guys. I do love them.

July 9, 2015 at 16:28
f u

f u

SO yes Saying I love you to your friends is okay. Sometimes its nice to hear people say it.

July 9, 2015 at 16:29
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InkyCake

Life is complex. But if you get to know it better, there are some things that become simple.
Boys are a 50/50 deal.
I say love you to my guyfriends all the time. But not like that, just love you. When they are extra nice, or I said something mean. Notes?
This is intriguing. Notes and hiding behind the best friend label.
I think he might like you a little. I could make a better assumption if I had more information on the type of person that he is.
Waiting until you finish school is wise, but you might crack if you don’t keep your distance. There is such thing as right love at the wrong time.

The thing is, as not only a teen girl, but a Christian girl, things in the world such as like boys are difficult. No matter who likes you or ,loves you or what.
Remember this

You are loved by God
You are beautiful
You need God

Guys are still figuring out who they are, and are confused still about who they want to be, in Christ and in general. Leave them to do it. Before I sound like a wet rag who has no feelings I have a little story of my own:

Once upon a time there lived a beautiful princess. She got ignored by all of the guys, she had crushes and they didn’t like her back. She made mistakes, she sometimes looked at the mirror and she didn’t like it. She wondered what the flip was wrong with her, she had her heart broken.
But eventually she learnt this, there is void only God can fill. No matter who comes and tells her, only she can learn this for herself. 🙂

God loves you. I keep blasting this in your ear, but he does, and it breaks his heart when you don’t feel loved the way he wants you to. Talk to him, find out what this means to Him.

🙂

July 11, 2015 at 03:29
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