Three years ago, I started going to a youth group/church and met a guy who became a mutual friend. This past year, he has started to become a good friend of mine, and I’ve started to become confused. For nearly two years, I never saw this guy as more than a friend, even though every girl had a major crush on him. Well, around Aug. this year, I started to develop a tiny crush on him. More like I just really admired him. In September, I went away for college and at first he slipped to the back of my mind, and I thought for sure the crush would fade away. Well since then, I’ve come home two times for short breaks and each time I’ve seen him. And each time I feel as if we get closer. When he’s seen me, he’ll be one of the first people to run up to me, and hugs me and tells me how much he misses me. Or he’ll sit next to me on the couch, or at the table, or will make me listen to his new song he wrote, or he’ll talk to me about anything, or he’ll just sit there and stare at me. I never saw myself crushing on him, and I’ve been praying A LOT over it but it seems like every time I see him, I start to like him a little more. The funny thing is the more I pray about it to God, the more I see traits in him for a future husband; he’s hard working and determined, he loves missionaries, loves music, is so gentle and amazing with babies and kids, he respects those older than him, he’s humorous and he’s chases after God with such amazing faith. Every single time I’m around him, I feel safe, respected, valued, and cared about. The only issue is, I’m scared to approach him in ‘that’ way. Obviously, I don’t want to rush ahead of God, so I’m just praying and taking it day by day for now, but I just need some advice/thoughts on the whole thing.
|December 13, 2014 at 21:06|
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