So one of my good friends has had a crush on this guy since eigth grade (we are sophomores now). I’ve known him since seventh grade but I have never really gotten to know him. This semester he is in my history class, so we became pretty good friends and have gotten closer. We are alike in a lot of ways, but also really different. He’s told me a lot of personal things because he trusts me, and I trust him. I’ve only recently realized that I actually really do like him. I’m also pretty sure that he likes me as well. I haven’t told my friend that we’ve even been talking because I am afraid of how she will react. Does that make me a bad friend? I mean, I like him for more than just his looks, because I know him better than my friend does. I think she only has a crush on him because she thinks he is very good looking. If things progress between him and I (like romantically) how do I tell my friend? Please help 🙁
|June 5, 2015 at 15:27|
It is very considerate of you to be thinking of your friend’s feelings, and that is what friendship is about. You should totally be honest about it. If you’re not sure how to tell her or whether liking this guy is right, pray about it! Ask God to lay on your heart what is right for you to do. I think your friend will appreciate your honesty and maybe she’ll realize that she doesn’t like him for any important reasons anyways. Just don’t let this boy come in between your friendship! Best of luck girl! 🙂
|June 6, 2015 at 14:08|
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