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I’m in a bit of a “situation”. I’ll cut right to the chase: I’m living with 4 guys next year for school, starting in August.
I’m 20 years old, I’ll be a 3rd year at the engineering university I’m attending, and I’m in need of some guidance. I’ve known these guys for the past 2 years, and they’re some of my best friends – they’re definitely my best guy friends. I know that 3 out of the 4 are for sure Christians, but they’re more “closet Christians” that act quite worldly. I don’t judge, and I’m not too conservative either, but I’ve found myself in this situation and I’m wondering if you have any advice for me. There was suppose to be another girl besides me, but she was the girlfriend of one of the guys, cheated on him, and left. So now it’s just me. There are 3 bedrooms upstairs, and I’m sharing the basement with the 4th guy.
I know that it’s not an ideal situation and it wasn’t to begin with, but I trust these guys with my life and what’s more is that I had/have nowhere else to go.
I know this isn’t going to be as easy as a Disney maiden living in a house full of men. It’s not gonna be Snow White and the Seven Dwarves, it’s gonna be 4 college guys (who are definitely men in each of their own rights) and me. Any advice for me on how to live appropriately in this house for the next 9 months?

July 7, 2015 at 00:26



Give it, and insist on it for yourself. Is there any way you could get your own bedroom? I think that would be better than sharing the basement with a guy.

Honestly, I think you’ll be OK. They’re people after all and not wild animals. 😛 If things feel too uncomfortable as you live with them, you’ll simply have to figure out other arrangements. But if that happens, God will give you wisdom at that time so you know what to do.

July 10, 2015 at 20:33
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