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Losing friends and thinking everyone would be happier if I wasn't here

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ChildofGod_822

ChildofGod_822

I remember at homecoming some of my friends were spinning me around and I felt so incredibly special 🙂 But lately I’ve been feeling like I’m spinning around in the same group of people. I got upset at homecoming because I felt a little left out. My guy friend and his girlfriend quickly stepped. She hugged me a lot and made me laugh and he said he would dance with me. Then in November, I had them and some people from youth group over. It was great! And my friend Alaina told me that the people who came were my true friends. There were two other boys from the youth group I really wanted to come and invited, but they didn’t (or couldn’t). My mom said they would probably be with you if they could 🙂 … I just recently realized these people never invited me over or invited me to do something with them. My mom says I don’t need to feel forced to have another get-together, even though the kids said I should. So I don’t know what to do right now. They need to be a friend back to me. And why don’t they invite me anywhere? Would they all be happier if I wasn’t here? Would they even cry? Yes, I secretly wonder these things. You feel so alone when no one’s reaching out to you. Most of them don’t even text me except if I text them first

February 23, 2015 at 08:21
bbgirl2000

bbgirl2000

Dear Child of God,
I feel as though I can relate to this post. It can be upsetting when friends seem to take more than give. However, after reading your post, I can tell that your friends love you. You have good friends, and the fact that they don’t reach out to you as much doesnt mean that they dont love or value you, it means that they are human. Some friends that I have are very nice and love me, but they NEVER text me first. But the reason was because I usually text first, so they rely on me. Even though it is frustrating, friends can easily become reliant on others to initiate everything. Think about it: you dont like having to initiate everything, so perhaps they dont either and would rather leave it to someone. This in no way means that they dont love or care about you, it just means that they could be, simply put, leaning on you. Have a heart to heart with your friends, and tell them exactly how you feel. Listen to what they have to say, and consider who all are your real friends.

February 27, 2015 at 16:53
AdventureGirl

AdventureGirl

^Good advice right there 🙂

February 28, 2015 at 08:57
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kylie15

Im just going to tell you right now that there is nothing wrong with you! you are MADE PERFICTLY!!!!!!!! God created you to be exactly how you are for a reason and if other people don’t like that that’s there problem not yours. if they don’t like you for you then there something WRONG with them and the way there thinking of you. they sound like good friends and I bet they love you more than you no. but if you still feel this all the time maybe go look for new friends. and not everybody wants to not be around you WE PI GIRLS LOVE HEARING FROM YOU!!!!!!!!!! we are also your friends and want to hear and hangout with you!!!!!! I hope you no that, and God definitely wants to hang out with his bestie! 🙂 pray to God about how your feeling and tell him what’s going on if you ever need a friend he is ALWAYS there! hope this helped bye sister!!

February 28, 2015 at 14:58
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