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rinnierose

So I really don’t want to talk about this but I could use some advice…
8 months ago I met a very nice young man at my work. I was in a bad place at the time but he really just befriended me. We didn’t talk much at first but he would subtly find ways to compliment me or help me. 4 months ago I got his number and we started texting. He was so caring and sweet and at work he would go out of his way to see me. We started exclusion talking since the end of February but with our busy lives we haven’t hung out much. Long story short I was weary about how he seemed kinda worldly but so far it hadn’t been a problem. The thing is that today my friend told me that his sister caught him “pleasuring” himself and it made me feel very uncomfortable. I know desires are normal things to have but should I run for the hills while I still can or is this just normal for young men/ women? I’m not a very sexually person and I have my own boundaries and beliefs… I just sincerely don’t know what to do…
Hopefully that makes sense and isn’t too weird…

March 31, 2015 at 00:37
vanilla

vanilla

You were already suspicious about his worldliness before, and now something else has come up. I think you should wait for someone who can be a better, more godly leader instead of just going for a nice guy.

March 31, 2015 at 19:44
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trulyblessed

I agree with Vanilla! You can still be friends with him though! Let this be the chance to preach the message!

May 28, 2015 at 22:09
MandaPanda18

MandaPanda18

You can’t seriously make the decision to “run for the hills” based on the fact that a young man living in a corrupt world acted on his natural, human desires, can you? I’m sorry to say it like this, but that’s ridiculous. Just because he masturbates doesn’t mean that he’s a bad guy. All it means is that he has given into temptation. Everyone is tempted with desires of the flesh, whether they’re Christians or not. Everyone has to make the decision whether or not to give into those temptations. It’s not any different from being tempted to disrespect your parents, or being tempted to lie. I think you should meet him with grace and forgiveness, and support to overcome this temptation in the future.

June 28, 2015 at 15:51
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rinnierose

Thank you girls!
I definitely moved past from this and got really close to him but unfortunately there ere many other issues that surfaced that made me realize that he and I are too different. I appreciate all the advice and wisdom! 🙂

June 28, 2015 at 22:15
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