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My Christian boyfriend has been struggling with pornogrophy. Help me.

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KaylaMarie819

KaylaMarie819

My boyfriend of seven months, just tearfully confessed to me two days ago that he has been struggling with pornogrophy. He is and has been an on fire Christian since he was a kid, and he is 19 now. I wouldn’t ever have expected this in a million years, and my heart is so broken right now. He said he is done, and he’s deleted social media and other things off his phone to prevent anything more, and he told me he has completely repented. I told him I forgive him, which I do, but this one of the most painful things I’d ever gone through. Especially since we are pretty serious and marriage is our goal in the future. Since then we have been kind of distant, and I don’t want that but I can’t help it. I still love him and want to be with him and I believe him that he is done, but I don’t know what to do besides keep praying and praying. Please help me.

July 26, 2015 at 18:02
Broken Vessel

Broken Vessel

Love: Just keep praying until it you completely forgive him.
He’s not a bad person because of this, and he wasn’t intentionally trying to hurt you. Remember that he’s not the enemy, and neither are the porn actors.
Education:Watch some interviews with him by ex-porn actors and actresses about what really goes on behind the scenes. It’s a lot of abuse and most of the women want out.
Accountability: There are apps and computer programs where he can sign up and have someone (you, a friend, a pastor) be his accountability partner. Whenever he goes to one of those sites, it’ll alert his a partner, and they can meet up, talk about what happened and how it can be prevented next time.

July 27, 2015 at 16:08
Celby

Celby

^Amen! I’ll pray for him too, may God cast out that spirit of pornography from him in Jesus’s name!
You can forward this video to him, so he too can pray in every day in his life:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OFVtTkicAkQ

July 30, 2015 at 14:53
melstar97

melstar97

http://youtu.be/QY-f_MrVWbg

August 7, 2015 at 13:06
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