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I’ve known my friend Morgan since I was a Sophomore and she was a freshman. We had a class together, and at first I thought she didn’t really like me. I’m a super senior now and she’s a senior. This past summer we became really good friends, like sisters. I know she loves/adores me now, but I don’t see how she can exactly. How can Morgan like me as much as I like her? I worry a lot if I like my friends more than they like me. She has helped me so much, I hope that’s not the case. I just went to her house on Friday. She always tries to make me laugh and get more comfortable. A lot like my own sister. Morgan and her brother Jonathan started singing a song. Also, is it bad I have a little crush on her brother, and if she figured it out would she be mad? She talks about him a lot, so I ask questions about him. I don’t know if I seem too interested in him and his life. We were texting once over an issue I had, and she said “It’s ok. You have other friends!” Then I said “Yeah. I have you and your brother.” She kind of ignored that and when I said he could hang out with us too once. I just thought it might be nice to invite him too because when I come over, the whole family sits in the kitchen with us. I’m not trying to do anything bad. He seemed mostly happy, and his eyes lit up when he said “Hi” to me. He also was talking under his breath really quietly, but smiling at me. Do you think that meant anything bad? I also have hearing aids, so do you think Morgan’s family told knew that? They didn’t treat me any differently, although when Morgan was going to help me with something, her Mom said “She’s got it.”
I also think Jonathan might like me because his eyes are always like shinning/happy when he sees me, and it’s like there’s something we can’t look away from. One day we were walking together, and when we said good-bye, we both looked back. It looked like he was looking at my whole face and trying to look into my eyes. I felt like people truly cared about me. Also, there was a time when when me and Morgan went to a football game. She said “Let’s find my brother.” So she came up behind him and gave him a hug. He turned around, and his face was so light up and happy when he saw me. I also noticed his pupils were big. They say smiles are a gift, and I always remember that when I’m thinking no one likes me. Throughout, the game, he was standing with some friends but just kept looking at me. His face had the open, happy, and accepting body language. He kept trying to look into my eyes, especially when Morgan showed how much she liked/appreciated me and how happy she was. There was also a Buddy Night, so I had opportunity to get a picture with a football player. Morgan said we had to wait for me to get my picture. I don’t know if he was mad about waiting, but he just looked at me with big eyes that were full of emotion. Thank you for all your help! I don’t want to make my friend mad or think I’m using her. She had one friend do that. Definitely not me though! Also advice on if you think her brother likes me would be helpful too. I would just at least want to be his friend too

I also went in another room at one point. He started singing louder as he walked by it, like trying to be noticed maybe? And I’m also Morgan’s buddy in Best Buddies this year. Would she only like me because of that? Thank you again! I didn’t realize until recently he must’ve used to like me. That’s why he probably looked like that at the football game and why he kept staring at me while he was in a group of friends. His face was like so friendly and open, and a little red.
I was also with my friend once when he was unfortunately on a date with another girl 🙁 Morgan says she thinks they’re dating and he always hangs out with her but he never talks about it. But she seems kinda mean. She hit him once after he said ‘Hi’ to me. Another time, she looked mean and not very happy. I had a right to be there and he was being nice. At the very least, I would like to become friends with him and I’m not sure how. How could I? I usually do hang out with a friend, then a sibling starts joining us. I’m used to being friends with siblings. How could I ask if her brother could join us? I thought it was nice to want to include someone else. When I asked her once, she said her brother was weird and they don’t have long conversations. I’m also confused because whenever I go to her house, we end up staring at each other. One time she was talking to her mom in her brother’s room. While they were talking, we stared, and then he slowly closed his eyes. He looked peaceful even if he didn’t say anything. I might have been staring, but he kept looking back too. Another time this week, my mom dropped me off and he opened the door. I didn’t realize right away he was staring at me until I looked up at him, then he looked away quickly. I just feel like what such good chemistry I have with Morgan, I also have with her brother, and I have a feeling he likes me.. And she doesn’t have a problem with me liking her brother. She just said it didn’t affect her. If this doesn’t work out, I just really like her family and wanted to be part of it I guess.

I also think Jonathan might like me because his eyes are always like shinning/happy when he sees me, and it’s like there’s something we can’t look away from. It was so cool looking! Like a bright light. I still can’t forget it. One day we were walking together, and when we said good-bye, we both looked back. It looked like he was looking at my whole face and trying to look into my eyes. It made me feel like people truly cared about me. Also, there was a time when when me and Morgan went to a football game. She said “Let’s find my brother.” So she came up behind him and gave him a hug. He turned around, and his face was so lit up and happy when he saw me. I also noticed his pupils were big. They say smiles are a gift, and I always will remember that one when I’m thinking no one likes me. Throughout, the game, he was standing with some friends but just kept looking at me. His face had the open, happy, and accepting body language. He kept trying to look into my eyes, especially when Morgan showed how much she liked/appreciated me and how happy she was. (Patting me on the head) I have a lot of people who love me, but I cannot tell how loved I feel by her alone. It’s like a special type of acceptance. There was also a Buddy Night so I had opportunity to get a picture with a football player, who at the time I had a huge crush on. Morgan told him we had to wait to get my picture. I don’t know if he was mad about waiting, but he just looked at me with big eyes that were full of emotion. Thank you for all your help! I don’t want to make my friend mad or think I’m using her. She had one friend do that. Definitely not me though! Also advice on if you think her brother likes me would be helpful too. I would just at least want to be his friend too. How could I ask if he can hang out with us too? I usually hang out with friends and their siblings and I like it. My mom said it’s a chemistry thing but I feel like as much of good chemistry I have with Morgan, I have with her brother too. I went in another room at one point. He started singing louder as he walked by it, like trying to be noticed maybe? And I’m also Morgan’s buddy in Best Buddies this year. Would she only like me because of that? Thank you again! I didn’t realize until recently he must have used to like me. That’s why he probably looked like that at the football game and why he kept staring at me while he was in a group of friends. His face was like so friendly and open, and a little red.
I was also with my friend once when he was unfortunately on a date with another girl 🙁 Morgan says she thinks they’re dating and he always hangs out with her but he never talks about it. But she seems kinda mean. She hit him once after he said ‘Hi’ to me. Another time, she looked mean and not very happy. I had a right to be there and he was being nice. At the very least, I would like to become friends with him and I’m not sure how. How could I? I usually do hang out with a friend, then a sibling starts joining us. I’m used to being friends with siblings. How could I ask if her brother could join us? I thought it was nice to want to include someone else. When I asked her once, she said her brother was weird and they don’t have long conversations. I’m also confused because whenever I go to her house, we end up staring at each other. One time she was talking to her mom in her brother’s room. While they were talking, we stared, and then he slowly closed his eyes. He looked peaceful even if he didn’t say anything. I might have been staring, but he kept looking back too. Another time this week, my mom dropped me off and he opened the door. I didn’t realize right away he was staring at me until I looked up at him, then he looked away quickly. He also gave me a wide smile, not just one of the polite ones. But he also kept staring at my mom with those happy, shinning eyes. I just feel like what such good chemistry I have with Morgan, I also have with her brother, and I have a feeling he likes me. My friend doesn’t have a problem with me liking her brother. She just said it didn’t affect her. If this doesn’t work out, I just really like her family and wanted to be part of it I guess. They’re all so cool and accepting! I also worry a lot if I’m saying or doing the right thing, or even if it’s ok to text someone. They are truly gifts from God! I can be certain of things around them and there’s no room to question why they or anyone likes me. I also have no doubt they would both love and accept a girl with a hearing loss. I would really appreciate some help or advice. This has been on my mind for a long time. Thank you!

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