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My friend Morgan

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I’ve known Morgan since I was a Sophomore and she was a freshman. We had a class together, and at first I thought she didn’t really like me. I’m a super senior now and she’s a senior. This past summer we became really good friends, like sisters. I know she loves/adores me now, but I don’t see how she can exactly. How can Morgan like me as much as I like her? I worry a lot if I like my friends more than they like me. She has helped me so much, I hope that’s not the case. I just went to her house on Friday. She always tries to make me laugh and get more comfortable. A lot like my own sister. Morgan and her brother Jonathan started singing a song. Also, is it bad I have a little crush on her brother, and if she figured it out would she be mad? She talks about him a lot, so I ask questions about him. I don’t know if I seem too interested in him and his life. We were texting once over an issue I had, and she said “It’s ok. You have other friends!” Then I said “Yeah. I have you and your brother.” She kind of ignored that and when I said he could hang out with us too once. I just thought it might be nice to invite him too because when I come over, the whole family sits in the kitchen with us. I’m not trying to do anything bad. He seemed mostly happy, and his eyes lit up when he said “Hi” to me. He also was talking under his breath really quietly, but smiling at me. Do you think that meant anything bad? I also have hearing aids, so do you think Morgan’s family told knew that? They didn’t treat me any differently, although when Morgan was going to help me with something, her Mom said “She’s got it.”

I also think Jonathan might like me because his eyes are always like shinning/happy when he sees me, and it’s like there’s something we can’t look away from. One day we were walking together, and when we said good-bye, we both looked back. It looked like he was looking at my whole face and trying to look into my eyes. I felt like people truly cared about me. Also, there was a time when when me and Morgan went to a football game. She said “Let’s find my brother.” So she came up behind him and gave him a hug. He turned around, and his face was so light up and happy when he saw me. I also noticed his pupils were big. They say smiles are a gift, and I always remember that when I’m thinking no one likes me. Throughout, the game, he was standing with some friends but just kept looking at me. His face had the open, happy, and accepting body language. He kept trying to look into my eyes, especially when Morgan showed how much she liked/appreciated me and how happy she was. There was also a Buddy Night, so I had opportunity to get a picture with a football player. Morgan said we had to wait for me to get my picture. I don’t know if he was mad about waiting, but he just looked at me with big eyes that were full of emotion. Thank you for all your help! I don’t want to make my friend mad or think I’m using her. She had one friend do that. Definitely not me though! Also advice on if you think her brother likes me would be helpful too. I would just at least want to be his friend too

December 20, 2015 at 12:09
ChildofGod_822

ChildofGod_822

I also went in another room at one point. He started singing louder as he walked by it, like trying to be noticed maybe? And I’m also Morgan’s buddy in Best Buddies this year. Would she only like me because of that? Thank you again!

December 20, 2015 at 12:22
Jules101

Jules101

Hey don’t worry so much! It sounds like your friend really does love or adore you! Her brother seems open to a friendship with you too and may even like you a little. Perhaps that’s why he was looking at you with such emotion in his eyes during the game. He might have been scared you liked someone else when he heard about the picture and he was so happy you were making his sister happy. We all want to watch out for our siblings, and we love the people who are good to them. It’s good his eyes shine when he sees you (happiness) and him talking quietly was not bad. He could have been nervous, plus he smiled at you. He definitely wanted your attention with the singing though! Now, as far as your friend goes, it’s ok to be friends with siblings, especially if they all hang out with you at her house. So my advice to you is don’t worry or think so hard about why your friends like you. If you do, you’ll be overly cautious and not really talk to anyone or be open and laugh with them. It sounds like you’ve been adopted into another family, in a sense. That is an amazing gift! God’s putting people into your life for a reason. Friend-wise or romantically, it’s ok to show people you like them. Don’t be so quick to look away; it’s nothing embarrassing my friend! You just don’t want people to think you don’t like them haha. Also, I can’t imagine Morgan would ever think you’re using her. She probably thinks your sweet or she wouldn’t be friends with you. You describe Morgan as such a personable, outgoing, easy-going person. I don’t think she would ever get mad at you for wanting to be friends with her brother, liking him, and inviting him along with you guys. It’s very nice of you to always be thinking to include someone else. I know she has even encouraged you to talk to more people. Hope this helps and encourages you!

Love your sister in Christ

December 21, 2015 at 21:41
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