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So ive been friends with a guy been getting to know each other. He told me he liked me and I did too. He would be calling and texting me all the time and last week he texted me. So i texted him “i want to know how your doing.I miss our conversations, let me know when your not busy”. He replied this this:
“Thank God it hasn’t been easy but it’s the way He made it. I would but at the same time I don’t want to give mixed signals to u. I don’t mind our conversation but at the same time I don’t want you to get hurt. I’m just careful right now. I’m seeking God and His guidance in my life and I don’t want you to get hurt in the process. Everything in its timing. Let nothing be forced and I do apologize for igniting your feelings. I’m seeking God in prayer and fasting. May He direct me. I care for you in the Lord but at the same time I want to be sure from the Lord. Thank u for encouraging me to get back to my feet again and walk righteously before God. Thank u for being there when I thought nobody else was there for me. God used u to give me hope and life. I want to respect your feelings and in prayer I just want to be sure. Just pray for me as I’m doing also for u. May He guide our lives not our emotions. I ask for forgiveness for being so foolish with my emotions. Their is a lot I still don’t understand. May God reveal it to me. God bless u Alejandra and I hope u understand. Please forgive me. Lord willing I am still going to San Marcos to join u all in worship to our heavenly father that has never failed us but we (me) have failed others in one way or another. May God’s hand direct our lives. Until the next service Lord willing let’s continue to pray for God purpose in our lives.”
I replied:
“If you don’t mind my asking What do you mean you don’t want to give me mixed signals, do you mind giving an example? and what do you mean by you don’t want me to get hurt?do you rather not have us talk until your ready? Or when The Lord makes thing clear to you? I understand if you need to work on yourself and your walk with God, if you need time to grow closer to The Lord I understand. I would never want to come between you and Him. I care about you a lot as we’ll and I meant everything I’ve told you before your are very special to me, and I’m willing to continue seeking the Lords guidance as to the plans he has for our future. It has been my pleasure helping you become a man of God and seeing you fall in love with The Lord all over again. I’m grateful that you gave me the opportunity to be of encouragement to you when you needed it. Thank you for all you have thought me and shared with me.You will continue To be in my prayers. I understand you need time and I’m willing to give it to you.”
He lastly texted :
“Yeah just time I ask until August Lord willing. Of course I need to work on myself. I just want to be sure is all. You are special as the conviction u have for God. That’s what makes u special. I admire that about u. I just need time alone to pray and make sure what I’m getting into. I don’t want u to experience heartache as I don’t want to either. Lord willing next month I will see u in in the upcoming service. God bless and keep being what God has called u to be.”

what does he mean? does he still care for me?

July 14, 2015 at 15:47
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Honestly, I feel like the fact that he wants to take the time to seek God and His will shows just how much he cares for you, even if it might hurt/be confusing right now. He’s trying to obey God and protect you. I also believe that it shows his capability as a man of God and future spiritual leader of his household. Just by two cents. 🙂

July 14, 2015 at 20:17
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