There’s a guy I’ve been noticing I see at my school and church a lot. Lately, I’ve been seeing him even more; in the halls, when he walks by my class to go somewhere. I even saw him when my sister picked me up from school. He pulled up, then he just stopped and stared at me. He also smiled. Is it possible for God to put someone in your path? I think he wants us to be friends. Sometimes I get the sense he likes me; one time he was sitting in front of me and my family, and he would sometimes brush his hair to the other side of his face, then look back at me through the corner of his eye. He would also look wherever I was looking. He looked like he was crying one day because he was rubbing his nose a lot. He also did that at school today when I forgot to smile back, so did I make him feel bad? But it wasn’t because I didn’t like him. I was focusing on something else. I also get the sense he’s sensitive like me. Would he stop being nice to me and not want to be my friend now? I found him on Instagram and Facebook, but he didn’t accept yet. I have no idea how often he goes on social media, but one of their family friends doesn’t like me. I guess I just feel like we’re friends by how often I see him. Is that weird? It feels like there’s a connection, and that even without talking a lot, we know each other. I’ve only talked to him once when he held a door open for me. It’s hard to find opportunities to talk to him at church. One week him and his family were talking to friends, then yesterday they left the minute we were dismissed. Yesterday, he was also staring at me a lot. When I looked back at him, he didn’t look away. There was someone in his way, so he was leaning forward a little. It wasn’t creepy; it was cute and he looked peaceful. He also showed off to me once by throwing and catching a plastic water bottle. I’ve heard that I’m cute but that was only from my mom. Is she the only one who would ever think that? He’s cute too, but he has a girlfriend? Was it wrong of him to stare at me then? And don’t get me wrong, he’s not a player. He’s a totally sweet person. One day when we were walking out of church, he gave me an opportunity to talk to him. I was stupid and shy though so I was even scared to look up at him. But I thought it was cool how we both slowed down at the same time like we knew we wanted to walk together. Do you think he would have given up already? I just need extra time to learn social skills. I am working at smiling more, because he (my friend) started smiling more at me too. Is it possible he knows who I am now? Thank you! I really appreciate your help!
|January 11, 2016 at 19:52|
God always places people in our life! Any people we know now is people that God placed in our path, people for us to get to know, people that will help us in our walk with God.
And of course your mom isn’t the only one who thinks you’re cute, you’ll find that perfect guy for you, it could be now or in a few years.
About the guy maybe liking you but having a girlfriend. Oh how I wish I could help you! That is something that confuses me the most in guys and I wish to understand it more, and I may never. But all I can say is pray for God to put the right guy in your life and to revel to you people’s true character and intentions. Just be patient! And since he does have a girlfriend don’t make him make the wrong choices by flirting with him. That can be majorly confusing for him. For now he has picked his girlfriend and you just have to accept that and let it wait for a while. See what happens. Just don’t cause him to do something he shouldn’t, even if you didn’t do it on purpose! Make sure to guard what you wear, say, and do. Everything will work out in its own time.
Also, don’t ever think you’re stupid! Everyone makes mistakes and isn’t perfect, even though you didn’t take that opportunity there’s a ton more. You’re absolutely beautiful and perfect in the way God made you!
If you have any more questions don’t hesitate to let me know! I love to help in any way possible.
|January 12, 2016 at 10:22|
Aww thanks! You’re so sweet and loving! How can you tell he wants to get to know me? I wouldn’t want to go to up to him and be embarrassed if it turns out he doesn’t want to. Do you also have advice on how not to scared when I see him with his girlfriend? I got scared because today when he came out of a room and saw me, then he kept staring. He was also by her locker, then he saw me and stared in my direction. I get scared so I don’t look up. I don’t his girlfriend to hate me. It’s ok to be his friend right? And I would never do anything to make him make wrong choices
|January 12, 2016 at 14:45|
It seems that he is trying to make an effort! And even if he isn’t there’s nothing wrong with getting to know him. Its completely okay to be friends with him! You don’t need to be overly cautious about it all, just as long as you aren’t outwardly flirting.
|January 12, 2016 at 19:43|
Thanks again! Does it mean he doesn’t like me if he doesn’t like me if he hasn’t accepted my social media requests yet or followed me?
|January 16, 2016 at 07:40|
Girl don’t worry about Social Media at all, it doesn’t define a persons feelings and thoughts. I know it can be tempting and its easy to obsess over how many followers you have and who is and who isn’t following you but remember this, Jesus only had 12 followers.
|January 16, 2016 at 19:38|
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