So lately I’ve been feeling like I’m not good enough at about everything… I love to sing but I only sound good when I do it incorrectly (which hurts me in the long run). I had a best friend for 8 years, but she just stopped talking to me and got a new best friend. Most of my friends don’t try to pursue me to hang out or anything- I have to do all the work. I’m a quiet person, and so sometimes I have trouble talking with people, so I feel awkward. And because I’m quiet, sometimes I feel like I’m not good enough for my boyfriend (he doesn’t make me feel like that, this is all me). Lately I’ve been having trouble with my body image, so I don’t feel pretty enough (on top of that, I’m growing out a very short haircut, so it doesn’t look the best right now). I know that God loves me and finds me beautiful, so I feel bad for feeling like this, which catches me in the same vicious cycle all over again!! Help????? I literally have no idea what to do because I keep catching myself in this same cycle!
|July 12, 2015 at 21:35|
First off, I know how it feels to not feel like you are good enough. I went through a phase where most of my friends had stopped talking to me for absolutely no reason at all. I was insecure, I thought that no boy was ever going to love me and I felt like I needed a boyfriend tl feel beautiful. I knew in my heart I was wrong but that’s just how I felt. But let me tell you something, IT WILL GET BETTER! The people that said they were your friends then ignored you..maybe God was taking people out of your life that you didn’t need there. Or maybe not. Maybe they need to figure things out with themselves. The point is, it will be Okay. Friends come and go but Jesus is FOREVER. If you love to sing, then sing your heart out. Sing for Jesus, He doesnt care how you sound. Sing for him and he will be pleased. Don’t you ever think you are not good enough for your boyfriend. You are MORE than enough. You are worth gold and silver. You are a rare and precious gem and he is lucky to be able to love you. YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH. Jesus loves you, and he thinks so highly of you. You are God’s creation, His MASTERPIECE. Would look the Father in His eyes and tell Him his masterpiece is not good enough? You are fearfully and wonderfully made. You are more precious than gold. You are deserving of love and happiness. You are GOOD ENOUGH. I love you, girl, and I am praying praying for you. Please don’t ever doubt your beauty of your worth.
|July 15, 2015 at 07:45|
Or your worth*
|July 15, 2015 at 07:47|
One other thing: Pray. Pray and ask God for deliverance from this feeling of uncertainty. Ask him to help you to know your worth and your beauty. He will help you.
|July 15, 2015 at 07:49|
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