Sorry for always having stupid boy problems but here it goes.
|April 16, 2015 at 15:18|
In this case, I think it’s best to be honest with him.
Tell him how you’ve been feeling these past few months. Thank him graciously for making the effort to reach out to you. And then explain to him how, as his friend, you’re concerned about his wellbeing. Let him know how you feel about drugs. Who knows? He might not be taking drugs at all. Just speaking truthfully about this stuff is a great way to address issues out in the open and deepen a friendship in the process.
I have another question for you. Does he consider himself a Christian? If he doesn’t, I’d advise against entering into a relationship with him right now. You can certainly minister to him as a friend, but it’s dangerous to pursue a romantic relationship with someone who doesn’t have faith in God. I’d recommend inviting this young man to church. Introduce him to your parents, your pastors, and your friends. Let him know that there’s a network of people — and, more importantly, a God who loves him — that will change his life forever.
|April 17, 2015 at 11:55|
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