So is wanting to be close to my guy friend and maybe snuggling with him a bad thing? Like that’s as far as it would go and it wouldnt be to try to make it go farther. I don’t see it as a sexual thing, more like laying my head on his shoulder, but would it be inappropriate? I want like I guess you could say love on him, but not in an inappropriate way. We hug and stand close to another, but that’s just because we’re close. I do like him, but I want to know if its wring to be close, physically, to him…
|January 30, 2015 at 19:20|
I don’t think that it’s wrong at all, but it will most likely bring more temptation, which you want to stay away from. It’s really up to you, but there’s really nothing wrong with cuddling or anything like that.
|February 1, 2015 at 12:12|
Depending on how strong your relationship with the guy he might get the wrong idea and think you may have secret feelings for him.
|February 3, 2015 at 07:34|
Child of the King
It depends on the situation. My boyfriend is very cuddly, he’s like a big teddy bear, so obviously I want to hug and snuggle with him a lot! But in some situations it’s just not appropriate, like ball games and public places. It makes people uncomfortable. But also not in dark rooms all alone leading to temptation. We aren’t allowed to be at each other’s houses when no one else is home. So hugging/kissing is more just a quick goodbye thing when he drops me off. Cuddling is like watching movies and just hanging out with close friends/ family. Not anything too far – just head on shoulder, sitting on his lap, or holding hands. So anyways, that’s how we handle it, hopefully that helps! Obviously you’re situation isn’t exactly the same as ours, so you’ll have to set your own boundaries and decide what you’re personally comfortable with.
|February 4, 2015 at 08:47|
I believe cuddling like that is ok, but like everyone else has been saying, as long as it doesn’t become anything that isn’t cuddling. My friend group, which is both guys and girls, is a HUGE cuddling group. Whenever we have bonfires we end up putting a blanket on the grass and we just comfortably snuggle up to everyone. It’s really nice to know that you have people who you are really comfortable with, and the cuddling I think strengthens this.
|February 11, 2015 at 03:54|
Cuddles are cute :3 but I wouldn’t know lol…
|February 14, 2015 at 20:01|
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