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so on Saturday night I decided to try omline dating but the thing about online dating is that I dont upload a picture of my face when I know that a guy is not perverted or desperate for sex. I also don’t go by my real name I go under a fake name. So then I thought im going to delete this account and just stop looking for guys until there was this guy that messaged me and to me he didn’t seem like those desperate men and our conversation started out really great then we started talking and talking then he was so open to me and he said that he wanted both of us to be honest for each other, so I agreed. Then he introduced himself and started to tell me about himself. I didn’t even ask him and he just started to ramble on about what he likes to do and all. So I was being careful and I just told him what I wanted ato do with my future, age, birthday, height, and my real name. I knew that he wasn’t the fake one because I could feel his honesty and his commitment. But the thing is he is 10 years older then me and he is a doctor in the UK trying to do another career because hes not enjoying his current job. Then he was started to talk ask me if I wanted a relationship and so on then on Sunday I got into a long distance relationship with him. but I didn’t care about the age because I like older men because their mature and they know how to handle real life situations better. Then I decided to reveal my face to him. He was so honest, sweet, that I decided it was time. He saw rhe picture and he said that I look shy and he needs to take care of me. before we jad our conversation he told me that hes a virgin and hes Catholic. then on Mon was the last time we talked to each other. He said that hes really busy and his work is keeping himself busy and all so I thought maybe he is super busy tired and stressed out. so then I messageed him and asked if everything was okay then he hasn’t messaged me back and now we haven’t talked for like five days. So I asked my guy friends about it and they said that he was making lies and creating a game. But he clearly said thagthat hes not here to play/create games with me. the guy specifically told me that hes going to only chat me And hes gonna add me to his favourite. So then I asked my girlfriend’s and they said that I should wait for him because he might be siper busy. Some also said go with what my heart felt. But I think that hes really busy and tired. But I don’t know. he hasn’t been on for 4 days and he hasn’t messaged me back. I don’t even know what I need to do. I asked god for help and I asked him for a sign but there is nothing. I even cried my eyes put for like three days and I don’t know. Please help me out.
|January 31, 2015 at 19:17|
Ok…. how old are you? Because it seems like (from your style of writing) You are probably…. well, under 25. Online dating is veeeeeeeeeeery risky, and you never know…. I don’t think it’d be wise to start a relationship with someone that you don’t truly know, especially when you’re young. It seems to me like you’ve already “fallen” for him, as you’ve cried about the situation for 3 days, and I really think you need to take a step back and slowwwwww dowwwwwn. Also, if you just “met” this guy a week ago…. Girl. Slow. Down. Relationships take time. Slowwwww dowwwwwwwwn.
|January 31, 2015 at 22:28|
I saw your profile and it says you are only 17. 10 years is way too large of an age difference, and this guy may not be looking at the right intentions. Most guys who are in their late 20’s don’t have good intentions when dating a minor. Most online dating sites are also for adults 18 or 21 years older. This could be potentially dangerous for you. Talk to your parents and see if they approve of it.
|February 1, 2015 at 10:33|
I don’t think that you should be online dating, at least not at this age (^ she said your profile said you were 17?). It can be really dangerous, and plus, you don’t really know this guy and you are so far apart geographically. I think that you should take a big step back and think about what is going on. You are 17, trying to date a 27 year old that you’ve never met, that lives on a different continent, and you are getting hurt by it. It’s just not very smart.
|February 1, 2015 at 12:28|
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