After being hurt or making a habit of keeping people away (for reasons you may not want to say), opening your heart is hard. I am 20, have met a respectable man, and I risk pushing that person away because I don’t want to be vulnerable. But I have to start trusting at some point. I want to continue to get to know him, yet I don’t want to, at the same time because I do not want to be hurt. What a vicious cycle! How do I trust and be okay in a good situation with someone? Have you ever wanted to have a friend, but were too afraid that you’d be hurt again? How do you just let go of unreasonable fear and discomfort?
|July 12, 2015 at 12:57|
Oh look a post I can completely relate with right now. I’m in the same tough situation. I’m going to share something my friend shared with me. That is to keep your heart safe with barriers at first. That doesn’t mean don’t be open but finding that balance between being open and wearing your heart on your sleeve. Don’t give what you’ll regret later with what can’t be taken back. It also depends on your relationship with this guy. Take it slow. There’s no need to rush any relationship. You need to make sure this guy is legit if you’re unsure. I hope this helps in some way~ We’re in this together. <3
|August 7, 2015 at 13:01|
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