My parents have been married for 19 years and sure they had big fights and ups and downs like any other couple but ever since I was 5(I’m 15 know) They gave their life to Christ, but now they have been having more fights than usual and I can’t stop crying. I think its because I’m always at home with them. And my dad and I went to the store (on a Sunday after church and he was talking about divorce and asking me questions and he said “after I talk to your mom and if we keep fighting I can’t promise you we’ll stay together”. They don’t serve or congregate much other than Sundays. I don’t know what to do, and am on the verge of a breakdown.
|March 6, 2016 at 14:00|
As someone who has gone through a parent’s divorce, I am so sorry that you’re going through this, and here’s a hug: (((Hug))). Listening to your parents fight isn’t easy, and if I could make it go away for every kid out there, I would. I know that it hurts really bad right now, but the truth is, sometimes it’s better after the divorce. My parent’s have been separated for seven years now, and divorced for five. It was really hard for a long time, but as I’ve gotten older, I’ve found that my life is much better now than it ever was before. All I can tell you is to take care of yourself. Cry if you need to, and pray. If you want to, talking to your friends can be really helpful, just make sure you talk to ones that might understand (I didn’t and it caused a whole other thing that wasn’t good). If you want to talk more, my email is email@example.com . I’m here if you want to talk about it, or even if you don’t want to talk about it and want to be distracted. I’ll be praying that everything works out for you, and for your family <3
|March 12, 2016 at 13:43|
I’m in a similar situation because my parents are getting divorced. I know it’s hard and can be difficult to understand but just know your not alone! Xoxo
|March 22, 2016 at 10:07|
I know how you feel,i just came out of a season of pain,my parents separated in 2009,my mom,me,and siblings moved to a different city,we left our dad behind.Then in 2011,my parents got divorced,i was14 at the time,i was torn,and hurt,and i cried for years about it,i felt fatherless,and i felt unloved.Now I’m 19,and i can say that the pain and hurt that I felt,helped me find my purpose in life,I’m learning how to rely on God to get me through my pain.I want to encourage you,don’t give up,even when it’s hard,God has plans for you,you will come out of this situation stronger,you will have days when you will want to cry,and that’s ok,tears mean you are letting your pain go.Something good is going to come out of this,stand strong./The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit-Psalm 34:18
|March 22, 2016 at 17:47|
^^ This is so crazy! My parent’s separated in 2009 and then divorced in 2011, and I was also 14! Okay, that was all I wanted to say…
|March 23, 2016 at 18:52|
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