I need help any help would be nice I known my boyfriend for 3 years but my mum hates him bec of his sexual identity and what’s bad is that i have the same identify and she doesn’t know …I think I’m in love with him
|January 1, 2015 at 08:23|
I’m sorry that’s rough 🙁 I would say that you need to sit down and have a talk with your mom about why you think she should accept this identity, and you should probably tell her about your sexual identity. I know it will be really hard but you are her daughter and she obviously loves you. Sometimes it’s hard to relate to a certain sexual identity unless you are close to someone with that identity. For an example, before I had gay friends, I couldn’t relate at all to them and so my views on them were different at the time. If you can come out to your mom about this, sure she will probably be upset, but she will learn to accept you for who you are. Not only will you get this huge weight off your shoulders, but your mom will probably learn to accept your boyfriend as well after learning to accept your sexual identity. It’s a big step and it will be really hard to do but I think that it can really help strengthen the relationship between all three of you, maybe not right away, but eventually. Praying for you 🙂
|January 1, 2015 at 11:55|
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