So there is this guy that I REALLY like. I have had small crushes before, but I’ve never liked someone as much as I like this guy. I knew of him since I was 7, but I never really got to know him until about 3 months ago. We text a lot, and he makes a huge effort to hang out with me at youth group and school, even when he could be hanging out with his guy friends. He is so kind to me, and I can’t tell if he likes me or not. We had a superbowl party yesterday, and there was an inflatable obstacle course. He asked me to do it with him, I got stuck at one part, and instead of continuing to race, he waited and helped me up. He asked if I would play soccer with him, and when I said I didn’t have shoes, he offered to let me wear his, and he would go barefoot. Before I left, he asked if he could get a picture with me. When we talk, he asks questions and is genuinely interested in what I have to say. I try to return the favor. He is such a strong christian. He is ten months older than me. Do you think he likes me? I am seriously torturing myself with this because I like him so much. I have been constantly praying that God would give me a sign about whether or not I should pursue him, and I am trying to figure out if last night was “the sign”. He respects me so much, and I want to somehow let him know that I am interested, but I don’t want to come off as aggressive and chase him off. What do you think I should do??
|February 2, 2015 at 15:07|
I am going through a similar situation right now and I understand, it is hard to tell if they like you or it they are just extremely nice. For now, I would say don’t worry about it. Just be yourself around him and if it’s God’s will, He will put you and him together. Hope that helped.
|February 4, 2015 at 06:07|
Thank you @Ri-writes! That is a good way to think about the whole situation so I don’t torture myself. XD
|February 4, 2015 at 15:31|
I would say just be a true friend for now. Don’t worry about all that other stuff because, if it’s God’s will, it’s going to happen. The best thing you can do for now is just be a true and honest friend, and keep growing in God. Trust in Him and He will guide you. I’ll be praying.
|February 12, 2015 at 08:36|
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