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MacDawn1999

MacDawn1999

Hello! So I have a question about prom/asking a guy.
So if you’ve read any of my other questions, you would know that I like one of my best guy friends. He lives an hour and a half away from me, but he is 19 months older (I’m a junior in HS, he is a freshmen in college) so him driving would not be a problem.
Anywhoooooo we are really good friends- which is all we are whether I like him or not haha. My question is: would it be to much for me to ask him to escort me to my Junior prom this year? (considering the fact that he is older than me, in college, and lives a while distance away?)
Has anyone been there, done that? Haha thank you!

October 10, 2016 at 10:10
theteenfashionista

theteenfashionista

Like how far away? An hour? And are you guys really close or just kinda friends?
Also if he IS the one you might like, be very careful not to get attached…

October 10, 2016 at 13:07
theteenfashionista

theteenfashionista

…asking him to prom might not help if you want to not get attached, and if he already has a crush/girlfriend it might make them jealous for him to do that.
SO SORRY. I’m really pessimistic. Hope this helps 😛

October 10, 2016 at 13:10
MacDawn1999

MacDawn1999

It is an hour and a half distance. We have been friends since we were both kids, but now were are older it’s been a real friendship. He is also a family friend, which is good bc that makes my family feel better about him taking me (so parental approval for that is a go haha). I’ve decided to not get attached, or encourage any more feelings than for it to just be a crush, so that should not be a problem. And I see your point on the other crush/girlfriend thing. But then again, if it makes the crush/potential gf jealous, then that is her problem. Also, if he feels uncomfortable doing it, he could say no? You did help a bit, thanks! I’m just still unsure whether asking him to go as friends would be more of a hassle than fun for him?

October 10, 2016 at 14:06
theteenfashionista

theteenfashionista

Probably! If he’s a family friend, it sounds good. I’d go for asking him… “But then again, if it makes the crush/potential gf jealous, then that is her problem. ” I guess it is, but remember that she doesn’t know that you don’t like him. She might think you want to take him away, which would discourage a relationship of hers with him later, so just be aware of that. If you can it would be good to make friends with her. 🙂
Really sorry about my pessimistic worldview, again. I’m glad it helped a bit. 😀

October 11, 2016 at 03:23
MacDawn1999

MacDawn1999

That’s true! But she also doesn’t know me haha 😛 He met her at a Christian camp called CIY this summer and she doesn’t live in his town. I would love to be her friend tbh but again, we do not know each other. 🙂

October 11, 2016 at 05:56
MacDawn1999

MacDawn1999

Okay!! So update he has broken off everything with this girl and I’m 98% positive that he likes me. Now I still can’t date, but I still want to go to prom with him. Now considering that he doesn’t like/talk to this girl anymore, should I ask him?

October 31, 2016 at 09:17
Wolfsmaedchen

Wolfsmaedchen

He knows that you can’t date, does he? And if not, you should tell him when you ask him 🙂

So I think you can ask him. But since he’s just broken up with his girlfriend, I really would make it a “just as friends” thing. If he’s really interested in you, he’s still going to be interest in you when he is emotionally done with this break-up 🙂

October 31, 2016 at 12:55
theteenfashionista

theteenfashionista

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

October 31, 2016 at 13:29
MacDawn1999

MacDawn1999

@wolfsmaedchen (i like your username btw lol) I would def tell him that I just want to go as friends bc I don’t want him to think that I’m asking him out or anything cuz #awkward and actually him and this girl didn’t ever date they were just “a thing” or whatever like “in liking” lol but yes good advice thank you!

November 1, 2016 at 06:05
MacDawn1999

MacDawn1999

MY DAD OKAY’D IT SO I CAN ASK HIM BUT WHEN IS TOO SOON TO ASK!!!!????? :/

November 14, 2016 at 06:47
theteenfashionista

theteenfashionista

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH well when is prom??!!

November 14, 2016 at 08:33
MacDawn1999

MacDawn1999

HI FRIEND!! Prom is April 22nd. I don’t want to ask too soon cuz if he says yes i dont wanna keep reminding him haha but i also don’t want to ask so late that something has already come up? since he is a busy college freshman lol

November 14, 2016 at 08:38
MacDawn1999

MacDawn1999

I think I know what promposal I’m doing so woohoo!!

November 16, 2016 at 11:37
theteenfashionista

theteenfashionista

YAAAAAAAAAY KEEP ME POSTED

November 16, 2016 at 13:03
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