Hello! So I have a question about prom/asking a guy.
|October 10, 2016 at 10:10|
Like how far away? An hour? And are you guys really close or just kinda friends?
|October 10, 2016 at 13:07|
…asking him to prom might not help if you want to not get attached, and if he already has a crush/girlfriend it might make them jealous for him to do that.
|October 10, 2016 at 13:10|
It is an hour and a half distance. We have been friends since we were both kids, but now were are older it’s been a real friendship. He is also a family friend, which is good bc that makes my family feel better about him taking me (so parental approval for that is a go haha). I’ve decided to not get attached, or encourage any more feelings than for it to just be a crush, so that should not be a problem. And I see your point on the other crush/girlfriend thing. But then again, if it makes the crush/potential gf jealous, then that is her problem. Also, if he feels uncomfortable doing it, he could say no? You did help a bit, thanks! I’m just still unsure whether asking him to go as friends would be more of a hassle than fun for him?
|October 10, 2016 at 14:06|
Probably! If he’s a family friend, it sounds good. I’d go for asking him… “But then again, if it makes the crush/potential gf jealous, then that is her problem. ” I guess it is, but remember that she doesn’t know that you don’t like him. She might think you want to take him away, which would discourage a relationship of hers with him later, so just be aware of that. If you can it would be good to make friends with her. 🙂
|October 11, 2016 at 03:23|
That’s true! But she also doesn’t know me haha 😛 He met her at a Christian camp called CIY this summer and she doesn’t live in his town. I would love to be her friend tbh but again, we do not know each other. 🙂
|October 11, 2016 at 05:56|
Okay!! So update he has broken off everything with this girl and I’m 98% positive that he likes me. Now I still can’t date, but I still want to go to prom with him. Now considering that he doesn’t like/talk to this girl anymore, should I ask him?
|October 31, 2016 at 09:17|
He knows that you can’t date, does he? And if not, you should tell him when you ask him 🙂
So I think you can ask him. But since he’s just broken up with his girlfriend, I really would make it a “just as friends” thing. If he’s really interested in you, he’s still going to be interest in you when he is emotionally done with this break-up 🙂
|October 31, 2016 at 12:55|
|October 31, 2016 at 13:29|
@wolfsmaedchen (i like your username btw lol) I would def tell him that I just want to go as friends bc I don’t want him to think that I’m asking him out or anything cuz #awkward and actually him and this girl didn’t ever date they were just “a thing” or whatever like “in liking” lol but yes good advice thank you!
|November 1, 2016 at 06:05|
MY DAD OKAY’D IT SO I CAN ASK HIM BUT WHEN IS TOO SOON TO ASK!!!!????? :/
|November 14, 2016 at 06:47|
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH well when is prom??!!
|November 14, 2016 at 08:33|
HI FRIEND!! Prom is April 22nd. I don’t want to ask too soon cuz if he says yes i dont wanna keep reminding him haha but i also don’t want to ask so late that something has already come up? since he is a busy college freshman lol
|November 14, 2016 at 08:38|
I think I know what promposal I’m doing so woohoo!!
|November 16, 2016 at 11:37|
YAAAAAAAAAY KEEP ME POSTED
|November 16, 2016 at 13:03|
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