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Purity and Asexuality

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QuannasLove

So… hi. Potentially weird question, idk, but one I felt needed asking.
I happened to stumble across a site earlier today that sold purity rings and I found one that I actually really like. I have been wanting one for years. However, I am an asexual (someone who does not feel sexual attraction), and was also thinking about getting an ‘ace ring’. It’s just a black ring to put on the middle finger of your right hand to identify you as an asexual. I thought it’d be a nice thing to have in college to maybe find other aces. Do you think the two rings would contradict each other? Especially since I don’t plan on having sex even when married. I know that purity isn’t just sex, but a purity ring is generally seen as a ‘I’m not having sex until I’m married’ thing. Your thoughts?

August 1, 2015 at 20:52
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QuannasLove

I phrased a few things badly but I hope that gets the general message across.

August 1, 2015 at 21:01
Juanita11

Juanita11

I believe that if you want to, go for it. If they ask, tell them. What they think, though., is not really what matters.
I do have a small question, and I hope you don’t take this the wrong way. But how do you know if your asexual? I don’t want to be rude, I’m just curious.

August 1, 2015 at 21:14
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QuannasLove

Okay, thank you for that! I think I will get them both, then!
It’s fine! I think it’s different for all aces. For me I just kind of realized over time that I see the world differently than most people. I can go all the way back to middle school when other girls would see shirtless guys and fawn over how ‘hot’ they were, and I’d be able to identify the traits that apparently make them ‘hot’, but would feel nothing personally towards them. Even when seeing my ‘hot’ crush shirtless, I frankly just wanted him to put a shirt on because seeing that much skin on a person weirded me out. That’s one example. I just didn’t feel things the way everyone else did. I would try to understand and feel what everyone else did, but I never could. The more I tried to make myself feel and understand, the more repulsed I became by the concept of sex. I thought for a while that it was just because I wasn’t matured yet and that everyone was sex repulsed for a while, but I am now seventeen so I think it is safe to say that it is probably because I am asexual.

August 1, 2015 at 22:01
Broken Vessel

Broken Vessel

OMG OMG OMG OMG
THERE’S ANOTHER ACE ON THIS SITE?!

I’m sorry, lol. I’m just excited, I never thought I’d meet another asexual! I’m on the asexual spectrum too; I’m demisexual.

Since there are still ace people who have sex, I don’t think the ace ring would contradict the purity ring.

August 2, 2015 at 05:16
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QuannasLove

HELLO MY FELLOW ACE!

Thank you! I think I’m going to get them today.

August 2, 2015 at 08:20
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