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Saving your first kiss or not saving your first kiss

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Ryhas

Ever since I started teen years I have went back and forth between these two options! And now that I am a young adult it’s not to crazy to think that I could by in a relationship in the next few years. I really don’t want to go into a relationship not knowing what my standards are.

December 28, 2015 at 05:00
ArtiseyDisneyGal

ArtiseyDisneyGal

Personally for me I’m saving it! Because
A. Chances are you’ll break up with the guy you kissed and when you get into a new relationship you’ll have to tell that new guy that you’ve already kissed someone! And that will be hard.

B. Imagine that one day on your wedding, kissing your new spouse for the first time. Knowing you’ve saved it for that one guy. It will feel amazing.

Pray to God and ask him what he has planned for you and how he wants you to share that amazing first kiss.

I hope I helped!

December 28, 2015 at 17:24
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4everhis

For me, personally, I don’t have super strong convictions about saving my first kiss for marriage. I think, so long as the relationship is serious, exclusive, and long-term, and (most importantly) both you AND the boy are comfortable with it, it’s ok. Just make sure that y’all have people in your life who will keep you accountable (in every aspect of the relationship, not just physical). 🙂

December 31, 2015 at 10:29
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Sam

Personally, I don’t find it necessary to save my first kiss for marriage. I think there is something magical about sharing that level of intimacy that isn’t sex with someone you are in love with and in a relationship with. I think you should look into your self and examine the reasons why you would save it and why you wouldn’t.
And a note: I definitely don’t think that if you have kissed more than one person before you may eventually get married, it doesn’t make you used or unclean or dirty, so never feel like that 🙂

January 3, 2016 at 23:23
princesshunter

princesshunter

I’m saving my first kiss for marriage. I think it would be special to save for my future spouse if I get married one day. The best thing you can do is pray about it and ask God what He wants you to do. Some people think it’s innocent but it can lead to more than just kissing.

January 4, 2016 at 02:28
rizzle1515

rizzle1515

I’m definitely not saving my first kiss. I haven’t had mine yet but I don’t see a first kiss as a big deal. It’s not that intimate and to me it’s just part of a relationship. Kissing doesn’t just lead to other things automatically. If you don’t want to take things further than know your boundaries.

February 16, 2016 at 17:00
chloe523

chloe523

I didn’t save my first kiss, and honestly, I don’t regret it. I just personally believe that kissing is a nice way to be close to someone without really pushing boundaries (if you aren’t over the top with it). It’s really all about your personal decision. It isn’t wrong to not save your first kiss but if that’s something you want to do, go for it.

February 29, 2016 at 00:21
Speak4Elohim

Speak4Elohim

Personally I am saving my first kiss for my wedding. Not because of any spiritual conviction, or because I think it will tempt me too much. I think it’s a choice each person has to make according to their own thoughts and convictions. The reason I’m saving mine is just that I’m a hopeless romantic and can think of few things sweeter than getting your first kiss on your wedding day, knowing his sweet lips are the first ones you’ve touched. He may not be your first love, but he’s the one you shared a deep mutual love with, and you’re going to be together till one of you dies. I mean, seriously, that’s pretty romantic. So yeah, that’s the only reason for me. 😛

March 2, 2016 at 22:52
Julia3501

RosesHaveThorns

I was going to, but then I thought about it. I actually have a boyfriend now though. Well, fiance. (It’s a long story due to military stuff but yeah.) Anyway, when he was in high school he dated a little bit. He was raised differently than me and didn’t save his first kiss. As we dated for longer I prayed about thought about it a lot. I decided since we did intend on getting married, are in a long distance relationship and will both be going military it was a good way to express our feelings for each other when we have the opportunity to be together. Also, since he hadn’t saved his first kiss it wasn’t as big a deal for him. I very much enjoy kissing my fiance. It’s pretty great. Honestly, it’s all up to you and God. Pray about it. Everyone’s convictions are different.

March 6, 2016 at 15:22
Wolfsmaedchen

Wolfsmaedchen

I can’t save my first kiss anymore ^^ and I’ve already kissed two boys before I met my boyfriend… Well, for me, this is not the end of the world. It would have been cute to save my first kiss, but my first kiss with my now-boyfriend was as exciting and sweet as my first kiss ever was 🙂

April 20, 2016 at 09:21
AnnaKate

AnnaKate

Yeah I didn’t save my first kiss but I can see why someone would want to. I guess for me I just see it as the first kiss that will really matter and that you’ll remember forever is the one with the guy you’ll eventually marry. Who cares about the other ding-dongs you’ve kissed before him? 🙂

May 22, 2016 at 08:30
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