Hi, I’m going to be 13 on October 30 and I am a bit over-weight for my age, I’m about 120 lbs and all my other friends are at the most like 110. I can’t wear tight shirts because they show my stomach and I feel very uncomfortable wearing them for that reason. Any advice?
|October 8, 2015 at 06:24|
When I was thirteen, I used to think my nose was too big and I was thinking of a nose job,but trust me, looking back my nose wasn’t as big or as big of a deal as I made it. You are just fine. People don’t judge your stomach as much as you think they may. I’m also a wee bit overweight, but it’s okay. You can still be a healthy person even though you’re a little overweight. It isn’t that great a deal. What matters most is who you are inside: the unique person God made you to be.
Don’t worry, you are fine 🙂
|October 14, 2015 at 07:17|
I’m 13 and im going through the same thing. to a normal person i’m just a bit overweight I weigh about 122 lbs. But i’m a dancer and its hard for me because everyone around me are so skinny and flexible and perfect. But God has made us with a purpose. And he has made us the way we look because he thinks your the most beautiful girl in the world. Just try to tell yourself that everyday. I am beautiful and I am God’s little girl. And if it makes you feel better alllllllll of my friends are more skinny than me 🙂
|November 2, 2015 at 20:44|
So I don’t know what it like to weight more, it never had. But I have always weighed less. It would not make you happy to be thin. It might at firsthand but it would wear off. You have to find a way to accept and love your own body.
|November 3, 2015 at 14:18|
Girls, when I was younger I used to be extremely skinny. I used to weigh around 95lbs at 13. This is not to put you ladies down. There was nothing good about it because I felt sick all the time and STILL was self-conscious and didn’t like myself at all. It’s not your looks that make you feel bad about yourself. I think it’s just the enemy’s lies. God has made you UNIQUELY beautiful and that means comparing yourself to others will only hurt you. Trust me, a skinny person can ALSO feel insecure. I know several very large ladies who are extremely self-confident and nobody ever puts them down. Their self confidence just shines through and makes everyone else see them as beautiful, because they see themselves this way. Pray to God to be able to see yourself through His eyes. You are precious and beautiful to Him
|March 27, 2016 at 10:44|
Amen. If it makes you feel better, even models (Lauren Conrad) feel bad about their bodies. Everyone thinks their body is the worst, but that’s not true. Extreme skinniness isn’t beautiful at all–it makes me wince to think of how girls starve themselves and turn out looking ugly. Just accept who you are. God has plans for you, and he made you this way for a purpose. 🙂
|April 6, 2016 at 09:58|
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