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kittenlover13

kittenlover13

Okay. So, I have a some-what low self-esteem. I can’t build it up, though. I have this (probably irrational) fear that if I let myself go a little, I’ll get way out of hand. I’d end up being full of myself. Any advice? It would be welcome! Thank you in advance… 🙂

June 14, 2015 at 19:10
ktuck22

ktuck22

No no no you won’t become self-absorbed! You sound a little like freshman me. I always thought lowly of myself (and, admittedly, still do sometimes), I was shy, I never wanted to be in the spotlight. All of that has changed simply because I WANTED to change. I told myself before junior year started, “There is nothing stopping me from being who I want to me except myself.” It was a revelation moment. I prayed to God for confidence and slowly I just started speaking out more and just convincing myself that I was confident in everything I did. And slowly, I didn’t have to convince myself anymore. I just was. All you have to do to change yourself is change yourself. I used to think it was hard. It’s not really. At least it wasn’t for me. I’m to the point where I embarrass myself and I pretty much just laugh it off and make a joke out of it.
It’s not going to happen overnight. It’ll take prayer and little baby steps. But just keep at it and it will happen. And no, you won’t become full of yourself. You’ll just BE yourself!

June 21, 2015 at 20:05
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