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Should I admit my feelings to my guy friend?

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Razzmatazz543

I’ve been friends with this guy for about a year or so, and he’s one of the first solid and genuine guy friends I’ve ever had (mostly because I get really shy and awkward around guys). About halfway through last year I started crushing on him. I didn’t tell him because I was shy, plus he had a girlfriend at the time. But I genuinely like this guy! He’s really sweet and kind to everyone he meets and is really smart (yes I like nerds). Should I tell him how I feel or should I not risk making our friendship awkward?

September 2, 2015 at 22:18
Dreamer1998

Dreamer1998

Is he still with his girlfriend?
If so: don’t admit your feelings to him now. It would be unfair to everyone involved. If he does like you back, you would be making him choose between you and his girlfriend which isn’t fair because he is already committed to his relationship. And if he doesn’t like you back then he might not want to hang out with you because he may think that you are trying to flirt with him. Because he is in a relationship it would make him and possibly his girlfriend uncomfortable to hang out with someone who is flirty with him.

If not: start subtly dropping hints that you might like him and see how he responds. Compliment him and break the touch barrier. Tell him how much you enjoy spending time together. And then ask him out as a friend to see a movie or go to the mall. If you think that he is responding favorably to you hints, tell him that you like him.

I hope this helps, God Bless

September 3, 2015 at 07:09
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Razzmatazz543

Thank you so much for the advice. As it happens something came up, and I don’t have a crush on him anymore. But I will keep your suggestions in mind for future situations. 🙂

September 12, 2015 at 20:04
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