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Linerss

Linerss

was raped before but thats a long story to tell. I really really like this guy. And he makes me feel safe, the way he holds my haND and talks to me and his personality makes me feel safe. He actually told me and asked me if he would be okay with touching my butt. I told him I wouldn’t feel o
Confterable. He told me he wants to feel me and touch me. Not innaproproatly. But just my butt or something. I really really like him. His a christian and he told me that he wouldn’t do anything to hurt me. But just the fact that he wants to touch me , makes me feel like his using me or somethig. I don’t know if I should continue seeing him or anything like that. I don’t know if maybe I should break everything off with him. I don’t know what to feel.about him. Maybe the whole guy touching thing is normal for a guy to think? His just brave enough to tell me. I just.. am a little worried and don’t know if this is a sign that I need to leave him or not0

July 18, 2015 at 10:35
cayenne.tisher

cayenne.tisher

If he is not being respectful of your boundaries and your past, you need to break it off. It is obvious that you are not comfortable with him touching you the way he wants to and if he brings it up again, I would advise you to end the relationship.

July 19, 2015 at 14:01
razzberryash

razzberryash

To be honest he does not seem like a true Christian. He does not have any boundaries and is obviously in this relationship for bad reasons. I feel that him wanting to touch your butt shows he has a lustful heart.

July 19, 2015 at 20:56
CrayKay

CrayKay

One thing is for sure, actions speak louder than words. If he respects you, he will not push things. Time is key. If you are feeling pressured or if him touching your butt is overwhelming then don’t be afraid to talk to him, do talk to him and discuss your feelings, after all communication is key in a relationship. The right guy, will understand.

July 27, 2015 at 23:31
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