So as you may know, I’m 18 and a senior and have a hearing loss. I’m finally starting to accept it, just as my mom and teachers always wanted. My mom still isn’t happy tho :/ I try my best to be a good daughter, but I still make mistakes. She gets mad at me a lot and I don’t know what to do anymore. She even got mad when I said I wanted to meet a freshman boy in my neighborhood with a hearing loss 🙁 What’s wrong with that? I don’t care about the age, grade, or gender-maybe I can relate to someone who’s more like me. I can imagine being like a big sister to him. (I already messaged with him a little and the interaction even seemed like a brother-sister friendship.) I also called their house, and their mom is open to it and thinks it’s a good idea. Is this really a bad idea?? Or weird like my mom said? She said she thinks I just want to meet a boy. Are boys and girls really not allowed to be friends? I really didn’t want to be a senior or 18, so people wouldn’t look down on me wanting to hang out with the younger crowd. Everyone says I’m so sweet! I would never intentionally hurt them
|March 17, 2015 at 19:13|
Of course boys and girls can just be friends. And you are sweet, I can tell from your posts. You’re 18, I would just go meet him. Please understand I’m not trying to encourage you to rebel against your parents, but you are an adult now and if you want to be friends with this boy go for it. It’s not really a big deal.
I think maybe you’re mom isn’t mad, just stressed out. Obvi, you know your situation better than me, but I used to think my mom was angry with me all the time and it turns out she was just stressed and tired, and struggled with depression so she came off as upset all the time.
|March 18, 2015 at 12:45|
I agree but…you may be 18 but age doesn’t matter to God…just because people say “oh its not right to have sex when your in high school but when you turn 18 its ok” I think you should really talk to your mom about it and yes you may be an adult now so you should make your own decision but ask God what he would want you to do because in the end its what he thinks that really matters:) im praying for you!!!!
|March 19, 2015 at 16:03|
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