How do you grow to trust someone when they have left you so many times but you have a caring heart.How do you know when enough is enough? When does the pain and the heartache end.How does it happen that you need time to greeve over your loss not over your loss of someone that died.but over an ex of yours.How do you begin to trust them when your heart screams yes but your mind says no.What do you do then when all that happens? How do you trust them again? When is ever enough?
Well, the important thing to remember is that not all people are going to deserve your trust. If this guy has “left you so many times”, then maybe that’s a sign that this isn’t a guy that you need to put your trust in, no matter how much you want to be nice or whether or not you do have a caring heart. I think that you should try to move on from this relationship rather than try to keep making it work. You are obviously smart enough to realize that something about this guy that isn’t trustworthy. I mean you even said yourself that “your mind says no”. So listen to it. I honestly think that it’s okay to put up a trust barrier so that you don’t get into a painful situation 🙂