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Emilyitude

Emilyitude

Ahhh. Ok.
Here’s the situation: I really really really really like this guy. Maybe love. And his feelings are mutual. We have been friends for a year and a halfish/ two years almost, and he’s just so sweet and ughhh. This last fall, I started attending an out of state college, and he still lives in my hometown, so we don’t get to see each other unless I’m visiting home. But we talk every day, and I miss him so much. I’ve always tried to keep my distance a little bit, because when he started acting like he wanted to be more than friends, I always told him “remember I have to leave” and whatnot. And he’s always super respectful of anything I say, so the relationship has moved very slow. And I’m okay with that. I’m honestly so happy with how our relationship is now. We just work really well together and it’s not at all weird. I don’t know how to explain this, ugh.
Anyway, my question is, what should I do for Valentines Day? We’re not an official couple, but we’re still sort of a “thing”, I guess? But I don’t really WANT to get him anything or whatever, because I don’t want him to get me anything either, and plus also I’m poor and I’d have to mail whatever and I don’t even know what I would get him if I did get him something. I really sort of want to just tell him “Here’s the plan, stan: we are going to pretend Valentines Day does not exist, and we’re going to act like it’s any other day, and we’re not going to do anything for each other, and we’re not going to sweet talk or anything either. deal?” Because, he will say cute things and I’m just like UGH because I would rather he shut up because when he’s super sweet it makes me miss him more and it’s like actually physically painful and I’m sure it’ll been even worse if it’s Valentines Day, you feel? SO should I say anything about Valentines day to him? Should I just ignore it? See what happens? Should I do something? What do y’all think?
P.S. Don’t make fun of me; I’m not good with this emotional crap.

January 27, 2015 at 13:29
Lostinthesound

Lostinthesound

Ignore it 🙂 Bringing up the topic of Valentines Day, even if you are telling him to ignore it may lead to even MORE talk about it and a compromise about actually doing something. Or it could result in hurt feelings. My personal opinion is that you just let this relationship play out, see where it goes. Don’t force anything but don’t try to run from it. Maybe this is God trying to bring you two together. Just be natural and do what you’re doing right now. Remain friends, but don’t push feelings that are irrational or naive.

You have the right idea to be smart about this since it’s a long distance “friend”ship and you don’t want to get too attached. But if things start to get more serious you should give it a chance and see where it takes you two:)

January 29, 2015 at 11:06
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