Okay, I’m not talking about some high school, 2 month relationship with Scotty from history class that broke your heart. I’m talking about being at the marrying age ( in my mind) and getting engaged. It’s very hard not to give your heart away to the person you believe you’ll spend the rest of your life with. I’m talking long term relationships (years) that seemed to be going in the right direction. For me, tragedy tore us apart. It led him to turn from me to live in the world and give into selfish pleasures. I lost my heart. I gave it to him. I thought he would take care of it. Now it’s been several months and I genuinely don’t feel he was right for me anymore, but I feel afraid I’ll never feel for someone what I once felt for him. We were planning our wedding, our lives. I’m not even feeling an urgency to find someone new yet, but as time goes on, I continue to feel that I’ll never be able to love that way again. I could use some advice, or maybe encouragement I don’t know. Has anyone else ever been through this? Thank you.
|September 6, 2015 at 10:17|
I have been through this exact situation (if I understand correctly). We ended things a little over a year ago and I’m still not completely over it. I still miss him most days and I wonder if I’ll ever get over it. That may be a little dramatic, but that’s how I feel. I’ve never been one to open up and let someone in, but I did with him. I was left feeling empty. It has gotten better, but it still hurts. All I can really say is pray. Pray without ceasing. Pray for yourself. Pray for him. Just pray. I know God will take care of you and your heart. He will eventually lead you to the right man who will take care of your heart and you will be able to love him fully. Trust God and seek Him with all your heart.
|September 20, 2015 at 20:01|
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