I am a 19 year old college student. I’ve never had a boyfriend before. A recent situation has come up and i don’t know what to do. My mom and her coworker were talking about me and her coworkers nephew and how we are such alike an how we should get together. From my understanding it started off as just a simple joking conversation but has now turned into something else. They both provided us with pictures of each other and have described us to one another. They also have given each of us each others phone number. From what i heard he was interested but to shy to say anything or contact me. I’m feeling kind of awkward about the whole situation. He seems like a nice guy and everything but i am unsure if i should contact him. I followed him on social media a couple of weeks ago and he followed me back. Aside from that I’ve been feeling pressure from some people asking me if i have found anyone yet. Im fine with where i am at because i don’t want to rush into anything for the sake of just being in a relationship but i am getting frustrated with everyone not being patient. I know when the time is right God will send me someone. The situation with my moms coworker nephew came out a no where an happened so fast. How do i know if this is a sign from God? Should i contact the guy? I need advice on how i should go about this situation. Please and Thank you for your help.
|November 2, 2015 at 19:29|
You know when you are ready or not. Just because there is a guy doesn’t mean that he is heaven-sent. Pray about it. Become friends with the guy, but don’t rush. If you see that he isn’t all he’s cracked up to be, you can remain friends without the regret.
|November 3, 2015 at 22:10|
Thank you for the advice! It makes me feel a lot better about the situation. 🙂
|November 5, 2015 at 17:12|
Hey girl! Not surre if I am too late but my suggestion is just to wait for him. Don’t let yourself take on the pressure because at the end of the day you cant please other people. DO what you are comfortable with and what you think is God’s will. But I do know that you both probably feel awkward. As a guy though he should be the pursuing you if he feels that is what God is encouraging him too. You don’t have to take the first step or any steps for that matter if you feel uncomfortable. But if you start talking to each other just enjoy building a friendship and maybe tell this gentleman that right now you aren’t really looking to pursue something but you do want to get to know him.
|November 10, 2015 at 17:36|
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