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MusicAddict101

So.. there are a few guys in my co-op I have been having issues with…

I’m going to start with Atticus
He really likes to flirt with all the girls and touch them. I was surprised at first because he’s a Christian. I want to avoid flirting with him but I think I already have. How can I avoid this again? Sometimes It feels good to flirt but I know I shouldn’t. HELP!
And then there’s Ryan ..
I used to have a crush on him because he’s super cute.. but I don’t WANT to have a crush on him because everyone has been teasing me and I just want to be his friend. But now I’m socially awkward in front of him! I can’t sort out my feelings.. do I like him? Or do I not?
HELLP!!!!!

March 15, 2016 at 05:30
ArtiseyDisneyGal

ArtiseyDisneyGal

Hey girl! I know I’m a bit late (It seems like forever since I’ve last been on .-.) but I do hope I can help in some way.
So for Atticus, set your boundaries. Now a days people use the term ‘Christian’ so lightly. He could maybe go to church once a week or so and therefor considers himself a christian. But back onto the topic of boundaries. If you are clear about how you don’t want to be touched by him or that you are not willing to flirt back, he will listen if you’re strict about it. Let him know that you don’t appreciate the way he’s treating you, he’ll stop. Be yourself, because if you’re trying to be someone you’re not you’ll end up flirting with him. If you stand firm in who you are it’ll be easier not to start to be drawn in and to start flirting back.

And as for Ryan,
If you like (or liked) someone just because their cute, then that’s not really a crush. In my opinion a true crush is when you get to know someone and their character and heart, then you wish to seek a relationship. But if you just wish to make a friend with him, then that’s GREAT! That is the first step to anything, is to make a friendship with him first. Also about your friends teasing you, I don’t fully know why they’re doing that but I can give a little tip from my life experience, be careful with whom you trust. Even when it comes to something as simple as a crush, word can spread and it can end up biting you in the back. I personally have figured that out in the hardest way possible, and now I know that even if it’s something as simple as a crush, to keep it simple. There’s no need for everyone to know, what does that achieve? As my mom recently told me “let them assume what they want, you don’t need to say anything.”
Don’t let your friends choose what you do or think though, if you want to talk to this boy then go and do it!
I know it can be awkward talking to guys at times, but if you’re just yourself you’ll get the best out of your guy’s friendship!
Pray to God and ask Him to help settle your feelings, and that He will help you with all your feelings and being yourself around guys.

I hope I helped you in your situation. Don’t ever forget to be your fabulous self <3
I'll be praying for you!

April 4, 2016 at 22:17
MusicAddict101

MusicAddict101

Thank you so much! Will do!

April 5, 2016 at 04:43
MusicAddict101

MusicAddict101

Anyone else have advice? I’m so excited someone acutely replied.

April 7, 2016 at 06:18
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