Hi, I normally don’t post these but I don’t really have another option besides praying (which I have been doing as well).
Long story short: My mom may be being unfaithful to my dad.
Long story not as short:
When I got back, no one noticed anything. This past weekend I was travelling with my mom to a tournament/vacation in a far away state. We were having a pretty good time until the last day. I thought we were going to keep spending time together (like normal), but my mom ended up leaving me in the hotel room for about half the day in total to spend time with the man with whom she may be being unfaithful. (Note: It was not weird that he was there because he and his family go there often on vacation. He happened to be there with his daughter at the same time as us. It was strange, though, that my mom went out to get tea with him (alone). Then she went out to eat with him (alone, I think he picked her up too. She did not take our car.).
Side note: my mom started to be very strange about not allowing anyone in my family touch her phone, which is the opposite of what she was about a month ago and before.
I am concerned that my mom is not being faithful to my dad, and now my sister, her best friend, her best friend’s sister, and her best friend’s mom have shown some concern. The man is muslim. I don’t want anything bad to happen to my mom and I don’t know what to do.
Should I tell my dad? How? Should I try to find evidence before it is removed?
Sorry for writing a novel lol. 🙂 I would appreciate any advice.
|January 7, 2016 at 11:18|
This is a very serious situation. You must be very cautious and careful about the way that you act. I can’t really give you good advice. I am not God. Continue praying to Jesus, asking him to guide you on what to do. Even fast if you feel led to do so. Only Jesus knows the perfect timing or how to deal with this situation.
Looking at what you told me, I find it very likely that your mum is being unfaithful. She leaves you in the hotel room by yourself and goes for tea and dinner alone with a man at his hotel? Why doesn’t she bring you along?? Why is she secretive about her phone? Also, a lot of other people have noticed changes in your mum and the other man she might be having an affair with. I wouldn’t be surprised if your dad has suspisions as well. Has she changed her physical appearance? Has she been doing late nights at work?
My advice for now, is be cautious and careful. I think you should tell your father eventually because he has the right to know. When you feel it is the right time to tell your father, you should have physical evidence of actual cheating, but also tell him in a calm manner about your suspisions. Tell me not to act immediately, but to think about it rationally. After that, Advise him and your Mum to see a Christian counsellor to work on their marriage.
I hope this helps. I am praying for you and I am really sorry for your family situation:(
|January 7, 2016 at 13:55|
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