What do you do when you and your sisters quarrel every time, don’t like sharing things, always having one issue or the other. And worst of all is if you’re the only one left out in a discussion
|December 23, 2015 at 12:39|
I have issues with my sister too. She hates being around me and I feel like she just hates me! I have never given her a reason to hate me, but she calls me stupid and talks badly about me to her friends. So what do you do? I’ve tried talking to my sister. I explained to her how badly she hurt my feelings. I feel like talking to your sister would be a good place to start. Even though my sister continues to be rude to me, at least I can say I tried. Also, talk to your oarebts. If they know what is going on, they will be glad to help you out. I did this and my parents now make sure to punish my sister when she is hostile toward me. I would like to say this, though: my sister is still rude to me. Maybe it will never stop. But I still show my sister that I care and I show her GOD’s love and I pray for her. Hopefully one day she will see that I care for her and she will become nicer to me. I hope this helped!
|December 23, 2015 at 13:04|
Instead of oarebts I meant to type parents! Sorry for the mistake!
|December 23, 2015 at 13:07|
My sister and I have a good relationship, and it’s gotten better with age. Like all sisters, we have our moments though. Honestly, the best advice I can give you is really cliché and can be EXTREMELY difficult to implement, but it does help. You have to be the bigger person and make the decision to be kind to her, even when she’s awful to you. Don’t rise to her baiting. Compliment her and do nice things for her. Eventually, she will notice. I kind of think of it like Love Dare from the movie Fireproof, except the sister version. 🙂 Sometimes it might even help to keep a journal. You can make a plan for your “Love Dare”, and it also gives you a convenient outlet for any emotions you have that you don’t want to (or that would be unwise to) unleash on said sister. 🙂 Good luck!
|December 31, 2015 at 10:37|
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