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Feeling Distant from God

God never puts distance between Him and us. We are the ones who put distance between God and ourselves. I know this because I am going through a time in my life where doubts and distance have come between God and I. I want to clarify, I’m not doubting God’s existence, but I’ve been doubting some of the promises that He’s made to me over the years.

What is the danger of feeling distant from God? The French poet Charles Baudelaire once said, “The greatest trick the devil ever pulled was convincing the world he doesn’t exist.” Feeling distant from God doesn’t necessarily mean that you are under a spiritual attack. However, just because it doesn’t feel like Satan is attacking you, it doesn’t mean that he won’t use your circumstance to his advantage. That’s why it’s important to develop our relationships with God.

Here are some verses/quotes that can help us do that!

C.S. Lewis “I gave in, and admitted that God was God.” One of my favorites! When we distance ourselves from God, we start doing life on our own, in our own way and the more frustrated we get, the further we walk from God. When we finally admit that God is God, that’s when we begin the walk back into God’s open arms.

Psalm 32:8 (NLT) – The Lord says, “I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you.” God promises that He will guide us, advise us and watch over us.

John 8:12 & 14 (NASB) – Then Jesus spoke to them [Pharisees] saying, “I am the Light of the world; he who follows Me will not walk in the darkness, but will have the Light of life” Jesus answered and said to them [Pharisees again], “Even if I testify about Myself, My testimony is true, for I know where I came from and where I am going…”

John 14:27 (NLT) – “I am leaving you with a gift – peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So don’t be troubled or afraid.”

Romans 5:3-5 (NIV) – “…we also rejoice in our sufferings [struggles, doubts, troubles, testing, trials, etc.] because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured our His love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom He has given us.”

God knows that we will have doubts in our relationship with Him. Sometimes it just gets hard to keep believing, but if we persevere (keep going even when we don’t want to), God will use that to build character and hope in our lives. Don’t be discouraged if you don’t fully understand or if you think the Bible contradicts itself. These things happen to all Christians. It’s important to remember however, God never contradicts Himself even though sometimes it might seem like it.

Psalm 23:1-3 – The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside quiet waters. He restores my soul…

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  1. Posted by on October 21, 2011 at 11:57

    i love listening to sermons and actually feeling better about my relation ship with god you shpuld try it

  2. Posted by on October 21, 2011 at 11:56

    never feel distant from god for god loves u and will keep you as close as possible

  3. Posted by on October 4, 2011 at 22:05

    This article awakened many things for me, and helped me to realize that I need to go back to Jesus and not fear. I don’t want to live the way I want, but the way He wants. Thank you for this article. I know it’s helped a lot of us girls out there! 🙂

  4. Posted by on September 29, 2011 at 19:36

    James 1:2-3 “Consider it pure joy whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the teasting of your faith develops perseverance.” I’ve been trying desperately to remember this verse and I am struggling more and more in my life. Suddenly I found this site and now I feel like I have hope again. Thanks 🙂

  5. Posted by on September 25, 2011 at 18:17

    I really need help.
    I try to come to God, and I pray and talk to him, but I feel like we’re not getting closer. This weekend, I hung out with a group of people for homecoming that glorified sex, grinding, being bisexual, and swearing. And I started swearing, too. And I’m really sorry about it. I feel horrible. But then I feel so distant from God that I cant obtain the love that we shared before. I know I’m distancing myself from him, but I dont know how to get him back. I’m trying really hard to talk to him more.

    And most of my friends seem so close to God, and I’m so far from him. Everyone says I have a superstrong faith, but I really, really don’t. I’m so scared of losing God. It’s one of the fears I have. I want to come back to him, but I dont know how. I’m so scared.

    • Posted by Nicole on October 8, 2011 at 13:24

      do not hang out with those people anymore! that is the best solution! “Show me your friends, and I’ll show you your future.” Wise words Jesus says in Psalms!!

      • Posted by on October 8, 2011 at 13:44

        They’re some of the only people that will accept me, and I have tried to find new friends, but that usually doesnt work out because I dont get to see my new friends as often. Most of the friends I’m talking about are seniors, and they’re going to be graduating next year. I really dont know how to not hang out with them since they are the first group I got introduced to at my High School. I’ve prayed for new, better friends, but I’m not a very open person. I dont know how to go away from them, even though they ARE causing me a lot of harm.

  6. Posted by on September 22, 2011 at 12:56

    I have doubts more now as a teen than as a child. I have to pray through it, but sometimes it feels that God isn’t listening, but I am not in a rut now.

  7. Posted by on September 21, 2011 at 19:07

    Love it! I have been feeling distant from God,and I’ve been praying,and I can see it starting to grow. This article will help even more.

  8. Posted by on September 21, 2011 at 16:40

    This helped me understand God more 🙂

  9. Posted by on September 21, 2011 at 14:11

    i was JUST thinking about this, and how i felt like i wasnt as close to God as i was when i was younger. thank you so much for the encouragement!

  10. Posted by on September 21, 2011 at 13:04

    wow this article couldnt have come at better time for again lol lately ive been feeling spiritually exhausted because of the many opinions(including my teacher though he doesnt directly say his opinion) about religion and especially about christianity. its been making me doubt a lot and its a struggle. thank you for this jenn.

  11. Posted by on September 21, 2011 at 13:00

    Beautiful article! Thank you for this 🙂 I’m sorry that you are going through a difficult time, but I, along with many of the other Project Inspired girls will keep you in our prayers!