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    Five Clues You’re With a Good Guy

    Being in a relationship can be a total roller coaster. How do you judge the ups and downs and know if you’re with a good person?

    Sure, he apologies and admits when he’s wrong. But is he constantly apologizing, in other words, MESSING UP?

    Sure, he’ll show up to stuff you invite him to…but does he spend the whole time flirting with other girls? Stop the madness!

    Here are five REAL clues that he’s a great guy.

    1. He calls 80% of the time just because he wants to hear your voice.
    2. He wants to introduce you to his parents.
    3. He asks questions about your passions and dreams.
    4. He gives compliments freely and makes you feel beautiful.
    5. He doesn’t pressure you to have sex because he loves you even if you wait.


    Nicole Weider is a Salem, Oregon native who moved to Los Angeles and quickly found success as a fashion model at the age of 17. Today, Nicole is an active wife, mom, producer, actress and author and has made it her mission to share her personal story, the bright moments and the challenges, with young women around the world.


    1. This totally describes my guy- but he does not have relationship with Jesus- he doesn’t know Jesus at all…please pray for him and me, that he can just be opened up to the “idea” of God and His Love.

    2. It is true my boy is not cristian too but he have all this qualities, however he move and I have not see him since then or either talk to him you guys think I should look for him in the future ! P.S ~ He was not cristian but kind of wondered to know who was God, oh and pray then for see him again ^*^ THAKS…

    3. Oh and he have not talk to me because he thought and toll me that if he was moving may be he was not suppose to be with me but I toll him that he belong to me, however he end saying to forget about him….

      • you are NOT a loser Emily!! Stop telling yourself that- that is the DEVIL’S LIES!! look in the mirror in the morning, and say “I am beautiful! I am precious, I am loved, I am adored, I am unique and one of a kind.” It makes you COOL and different if you’re not making out with a guy and giving it up to him because you are better than that and you don’t need a man!

      • Emily, sweet girl.
        You are so valued and loved by God. Those people hugging and kissing in the hallways may look happy on the outside, but just remember they may not be happy on the inside. Most of the time, when that is happening, there is a lot of physical going on and not as much of an emotional connection. Dating is SO MUCH FUN!! But so is being single!!! You can grow in Jesus and just grow your friendships. Jesus gave us friends for those lonely moments. and Jesus is always there. So although sometimes you may feel single, you are never alone.
        Single just means that if God’s will is marriage for your life, your husband is out there single too. And in God’s timing, you will become one flesh. And that, my dear is one of the most beautiful gifts. Watching God write your love story is so precious. ENJOY THE JOURNEY <3 it's a blast!

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