How to Worship If Your Parents Won’t Take You to Church
Written by Jenn Arman | May 30, 2012
Sometimes, for whatever reason, your parents may simply refuse to take you to church. When this happens, how are we supposed to worship the Creator?
When we can’t make it to church, we miss out on a couple of important things: fellowship with other believers and corporate worship. This is a difficult situation, but it also can be an opportunity to consider an important question:
Who’s responsible for my Christian faith?
The answer is that each of us is responsible for our own faith. It’s our responsibility to develop Christian friendships, to read the Bible, to apply what we learn to our lives and to seek out leaders who can help us to learn more. Once you realize your faith is your responsibility, you’ll begin to feel less powerless about certain situations (like not being able to get to church) because there are things you can do!
Let’s think about the major points of a church service. Every church service usually includes the following things: worship, prayer, teaching and spending some time in fellowship (talking and hanging out) with other believers. The most difficult thing to recreate on your own is fellowship with other believers, which we’ll address in a bit.
First, let’s gather the elements you’ll need to worship outside of church. Keep in mind that the very first church services took place in the homes of believers or any other place that believers were able to meet!
- Prayer – You can never pray enough, so start with this! Pray for the Lord to open the hearts of your parents, pray for guidance on what to do until you can get to church, pray for Christian friends. Prayer is the most important thing, so pour out your heart to God and then get organized!
- Worship – You can find worship music on iTunes, Spotify, Pandora and other Internet radio sites. Create a playlist of some awesome worship music!
- Teaching – Grab your Bible and decide what you’d like to learn more about. There are tons of places online where you can find Bible studies to work through or sermons to listen to, such as www.internetcafedevotions.com or YouVersion’s Bible app or website–they have over a hundred free Bible lessons. The church you want to attend may also have a website featuring the sermons for the current week, so make sure to check!
- Fellowship – Call at least one Christian friend and find a time and place to hang out (if you don’t want to meet at home, try a park). If you can’t get a ride to see your friend in person, then set up a time to hang out via Skype. Fellowship is important because when we hang out with other Christians, we encourage each other and keep each other accountable in our faith.
Once you’ve gathered all of your elements, you’re ready to have your own church service! It might not be exactly what you’ve been hoping for, but it will keep you connected with the Lord and with other believers. It also shows the people around you that you aren’t willing to give up on your faith just because you can’t get a ride to church. The Spirit of God doesn’t reside in church buildings, He resides in the hearts of believers everywhere. Churches are great, but you don’t need a church building to have a church service!
Do you girls think this is a good option if you can’t make it to church?
Do you not know that you are a temple of God and that the Spirit of God dwells in you? (1 Corinthians 3:16)