One Thing You Need to Do Before You Are 20 by the Kaleidoscope Girls

    One thing that has bothered me about Facebook lately is all the BuzzFeed and Huffington Post articles. I say “bothered” because I apparently have no self-control, and if an interesting title pops up on my feed, I WILL be sucked in and stop whatever I’m doing to read it.

    I find myself especially drawn to titles such as “25 Things to Do Before You Are 25,” because no one wants to feel like they’re missing out, especially not me! Am I doing this growing-up thing right? And if we’re only young once, then don’t I need to be living life to the fullest…you know, that whole “carpe diem” thing?

    However, as I found myself reading the lists that typically consist of things like skinny-dipping, making out with a stranger and tattooing “YOLO” to your brain, I started to wonder what God would think of a list like that? While I’m sure all of that may be exciting in the moment, is any of that going to leave me fulfilled when I wake up on my 25th birthday?

    As a believer, I am called to live a life set by God’s standards, not by a list that the world promises will make me happy. I see in scriptures like Romans 12:2 that I am called to NOT be conformed to the patterns of this world, but to be transformed by the renewing of my mind. So it got me to thinking: What would God’s list of “things to do before you’re basically ancient and in your mid-twenties” be?

    After praying about it, I felt like God told me one thing…if there was one thing to do before you turn 20, I think it would be this: to seek. Simple, and not as glamorous-sounding as making sure that you own a Louis Vuitton bag, but let me explain. God has made you unique and He has called you to do something only you can do. Blanket statements like “travel anywhere and everywhere,” “date as many guys as you can” and “dress to impress” are not necessarily for you. YOU are different. Because YOU are the only YOU that God has made.

    One thing I did in my early 20s (I am 26 now) that I will continue to do the rest of my life is I sought after God. I sought after His call for my life and I asked many questions. “Lord, what do you want me to do with my day, my month, my year? God, what is the unique list that you have for ME to complete in my lifetime?” Matthew 6:33 says that we are to “seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and ALL these things will be added to you.” That means that when we seek God, everything else (our joy, hopes, dreams, heart’s desires) will fall into place.

    Lists like “25 Things to Do Before You Are 25” can put pressure on us to be someone we aren’t and, in fact, someone we were never even called to be! My prayer for us is that instead of conforming to what the world says we should be and experience, we should seek God first.

    In your prayer time this week, ask Him how He wants you to spend your time. Then believe and trust that the story He is writing for you is grander and more beautifully nuanced than any list of 25 things could portray.

    Seek…and all these things will be added to you.


    Want to get to know the authors, the Kaleidoscope girls (Cammie and Natalie), a bit more? Check them out on their website and on social media!


    Two best friends with big dreams and even bigger hearts watched as their worlds collided to form their band Kaleidoscope. Influenced by artists such as Britt Nicole and Demi Lovato, this is a fun and fresh pop duo that offers an exciting and current sound to Christian music. Kaleidoscope’s Natalie Brown and Cammie Avers met in college and knew the Lord had joined their paths for bigger things than they could even imagine. Sharing the same dreams and passions for ministry, music, and teen girls, the two decided to join forces to make an even bigger impact on the world together. Ultimately, Kaleidoscope desires to see hearts and lives changed through their music. These women represent more than just songs, but truly portray the idea that even the ordinary can be used in extraordinary ways!

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